"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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EnErGy!!

DJ_in_making

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I was just wondering, can people actually feel someone's energy. I always hear that energy can be sensed but is it true? Is it like a sixth sense or something?

I ask this because some days for whatever reasons my energy would be very low, and I feel like I have trouble making interactions or being fun in the interactions. Certain days would include:

-I woke up late and feel like the day is wasted
-I feel sick
-I didn't shower
-I'm sad
-I'm bored
-Biorhythms (??)
-Sometimes for absolutely no reason

I was thinking, even if I am having one of these low energy days, can I play it off by 'acting' and pretending to have a lot of energy, or like I asked earlier, can people 'sense' that stuff?

And also, does anyone do anything particularly to get out of these low-in-energy days??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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organizedconfusion

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this sounds horrible but you could just dump that lack of energy on someone else and just steal theirs.Talk to someone really happy and bright and make them feel down like you do.Zapping peoples energy is a quick way of doing it.
 

diplomatic_lies

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Yes, people can sense when you're feeling tired. Even if you pretend to be cheerful and happy, people can still 'feel' your negative vibe. Its nothing spiritual, simply your body language, tone of voice, and attitude that shows.

Just get more sleep, eat healthy, etc.
 
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