"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ending the call, or conversation

jaybeezi

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It seems like every time I am talking to a female on the phone, I never quite know how to end the call,

I dont want to seem like I dont want to talk to her, but I dont want to sit there and talk to her for an hour, which I have done recently until she said, "well do you want me to let you go". and I was unsure what to say to that. say no and keep talking, or say yes and seem like I dont want to talk to her anymore?

and when I say bye it seems like they arent very happy with me saying "bye" like there is a better way to end the convo.

Maybe it is the tone of my voice that is not correct, maybe bye is not the right word? I dont know, I say bye, and she says bye kind of in a way that there should be more there, but I dont know what.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DankNuggs

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start with small talk about your day or whatever, then get to the point of the call (asking for a date, or to do something) then say you have to run an errand or go out to meet a firend....Just fire an excuse about how busy you are and end the call...it isn't tough...

Don't feel you have to pander to her on the phone...She sees it as weak afc behavior anyways....friendzone stuff....
 

Trance

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"So lets get together this weekend, (propose day)"


If she is studying somewhere and only comes home at weekends:

"Hey, are you coming home this weekend?"
If yes

If she stays at home all times:

"Lets get together then, (setup a date)"

If you are seting up sometime before:
"Ok, that's great! So i'll call you thursday for us to go out friday/saturday"

If its not long before:
"Ok, so i'll see ya friday/saturday!"

As easy as that
 

squirrels

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"I have to get some stuff done around the house."
"I need to call my mom/sister/friend/bookie."
"I have to get to xxxxx before it closes."

Just "have something to do." Easy out.

If she gets p!ssed that you have a life outside of her, chances are you're talking to a loser-girl anyway.
 
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