Poly stuff doesn't fix it if you aren't oriented that way, you will always attach to one chick.
men are born poly and get conditioned to be monogamous beta males.. heartbreak and love obsession comes from conditioning plain and simple. monogamy isn't some law of the universe it's the opossite.
grew up strictly monogamous and religious in the first place and all it did was make me vulnerable to getting addicted to girls..
became atheist, abandoned social fairytale narratives and the whole problem of having bad breakups and heartbreak went away.
this is my experience take it or leave it, but the level of pain I've had to face to come to these conclusions finally is enough to know what I'm talking about.
people can say that these beliefs work for me good for you blah blah blahh but that's bullchit..
every breakup scenario is literally the exact same goddam script that plays out the exact same way for every single damn person.
this means that the solutions are the exact same thing for every person.
so while people can take what I say, discard it and call me crazy, those same people will live the rest of their lives in the same loop cycle of failed relationships, misery, suffering, crying and writing about it on pickup forums.
while I'm enjoying life not ever going through breakups again and enjoying women for what they are.
because of you get to a good level in game you will realize how poly females are naturally. women are in no way meant for monogamy at all, were living in a false system.
again think I'm crazy? what else is crazy, millions of people suffering breakups day to day? or humans excepting their poly nature and not having miserable breakups ever again.
it's actually been a huge problem for me realizing this, the only girls im interested in being around now cannot have any problems about ex boyfriends and tales of heartbroken stories were they're victimized and miserable.
you know how hard it is to find a guy or girl that isn't shattered from some passed relationship and keeps continuing to do so?
where I'm currently living it's hard af.
/rant
just trying to help