"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So i just gott off a date with my girl and she told me she had to leave at 10. So once it was 10 i started getting ready to go but she told me to stay 10 minutes more but i told her that i'm gonna teach her to stay true to her word(not in a aggresive, mean tone but in a light, helpful kind of tone cause we're both leaving for college soon and i told her i want her to be able to say that i was the one who taught her to stick to everything she says). Her favorite song came on so i said i'd stay until the song ended and once it ended i left and it seemed like she was a little upset. Was that a bad move on my part or is she gonna want to see me more the next time?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think she enjoyed u being around her and u just cut her off like that. If anything, she probably thinks u have aspergers for not being able to recognize.
 
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lili19771 said:
I think she enjoyed u being around her and u just cut her off like that. If anything, she probably thinks u have aspergers for not being able to recognize.
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yeah I agree. maybe you should explain yourself and say you're sorry and send her some flowers or something to make up?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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