"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ended date early

LOLidkmyname

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So i just gott off a date with my girl and she told me she had to leave at 10. So once it was 10 i started getting ready to go but she told me to stay 10 minutes more but i told her that i'm gonna teach her to stay true to her word(not in a aggresive, mean tone but in a light, helpful kind of tone cause we're both leaving for college soon and i told her i want her to be able to say that i was the one who taught her to stick to everything she says). Her favorite song came on so i said i'd stay until the song ended and once it ended i left and it seemed like she was a little upset. Was that a bad move on my part or is she gonna want to see me more the next time?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

lili19771

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I think she enjoyed u being around her and u just cut her off like that. If anything, she probably thinks u have aspergers for not being able to recognize.
 

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lili19771 said:
I think she enjoyed u being around her and u just cut her off like that. If anything, she probably thinks u have aspergers for not being able to recognize.
yeah I agree. maybe you should explain yourself and say you're sorry and send her some flowers or something to make up?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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