"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Paradox

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Bonhomme said:
5. Favorite Moderator

Paradox To paraphrase the Tao Teh Ching, the best leader is the one who people hardly notice is there.
Thanks Bonhomme! 2 thumbs up for you too. :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bonhomme said:
5. Favorite Moderator

Paradox To paraphrase the Tao Teh Ching, the best leader is the one who people hardly notice is there.
I agree with this, just didn't know of a good way to put it.

I also agree that LMS is most entertaining... where is he???

I think Mr. Wolf is quite entertaining too.
 
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