"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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End of summer

Goofball

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Well summer break is drawing to a close for me, and I'm just wondering if you guys can help me come up with some flity/witty pickup lines. Since I know how unclear that was, here's one I thought up:
I just stare at her from across the room or whatever distance.
Eventually she says: What?
Me: How did you do it?
Her: *confused expression* Do what?
Me: You know...
Her: No...
*lean in close and whisper in her ear*
Me: How did you get even more beautiful over summer?

Any ideas? :cheer:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dannowillbookem

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Originally posted by Goofball
Well summer break is drawing to a close for me, and I'm just wondering if you guys can help me come up with some flity/witty pickup lines. Since I know how unclear that was, here's one I thought up:
I just stare at her from across the room or whatever distance.
Eventually she says: What?
Me: How did you do it?
Her: *confused expression* Do what?
Me: You know...
Her: No...
*lean in close and whisper in her ear*
Me: How did you get even more beautiful over summer?

Any ideas? :cheer:
MY GOD that was afc. lol.

today was my first day. a girl id seen around but was never cool enough to actually talk to sat behind me in math. i passed her a note that said "hi. whats your name" she replied "caitlin" i said "danno. i thought you're supposed to wear your best clothes on the first day of school" she: "whats that mean" me" :) nothing"

we later talked in class but it was a strict teacher so i didnt get around to getting a number. got two numbers today though, one from a hb9 and the other a hb7.5 not so bad if i say so myself.
 

defiancy

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yea that was AFC

dont rely on pick up lines, but rely on urself knowing how to talk to girls

pick up lines are unnatural in my opinion
 

dannowillbookem

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Originally posted by defiancy
dont rely on pick up lines, but rely on urself knowing how to talk to girls

pick up lines are unnatural in my opinion
well it depends. if its not corny then it'll be easy to pull off. for instance "you'll do" or even delivering a lame overused line with a joking smile can make a girl laugh.

and if u can make a girl laugh, u can make her do anything.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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immrtlwun

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If you do try one of those lame pick-up lines, make sure you say it in a funny tone, otherwise you'll just be another loser trying to hit on her. If she laughs, continue the conversation from there; if not, hang your head and walk away in shame because you just made a stupid move trying one of those lame pick-up lines.
 

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Dude I am so fuc*ing amazing that chicks are usually the ones initiating convo, not the other way around. But rather then using a pickup line, ask them a question or soemthing and start a convo like that. Then you can judge how much she likes you and how worthy she is to be graced by the likes of yourself.
 

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Thats a sweet line, im definitely gonna use that one

Being AFC works in high school, thats whats great about it. If a girl thinks you are hot enough to get with and you have a good rep and you pull a line like that, you are golden
 

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Originally posted by Goofball
Well summer break is drawing to a close for me, and I'm just wondering if you guys can help me come up with some flity/witty pickup lines. Since I know how unclear that was, here's one I thought up:
I just stare at her from across the room or whatever distance.
Eventually she says: What?
Me: How did you do it?
Her: *confused expression* Do what?
Me: You know...
Her: No...
*lean in close and whisper in her ear*
Me: How did you get even more beautiful over summer?

Any ideas? :cheer:
Shouldn't it be something more like

*lean in close and whisper in her ear*
Me: I thought you were supposed to get more beautiful over the summer..
 

Goofball

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Originally posted by brad67
Thats a sweet line, im definitely gonna use that one

Being AFC works in high school, thats whats great about it. If a girl thinks you are hot enough to get with and you have a good rep and you pull a line like that, you are golden
Exactly and this girl appreciates 'AFC' stuff esp.

Still not seeing anymore ideas though!! :mad:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Man I don't get the big fuss about going back to school and approaching women. This and the last week of school are probably the easiest times to work your game.

All you gotta do is get her talking about her exciting summer, throw in a few things of your summer, and do your regular number/whatever close.
 
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