"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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End of summer

Goofball

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Well summer break is drawing to a close for me, and I'm just wondering if you guys can help me come up with some flity/witty pickup lines. Since I know how unclear that was, here's one I thought up:
I just stare at her from across the room or whatever distance.
Eventually she says: What?
Me: How did you do it?
Her: *confused expression* Do what?
Me: You know...
Her: No...
*lean in close and whisper in her ear*
Me: How did you get even more beautiful over summer?

Any ideas? :cheer:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dannowillbookem

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Originally posted by Goofball
Well summer break is drawing to a close for me, and I'm just wondering if you guys can help me come up with some flity/witty pickup lines. Since I know how unclear that was, here's one I thought up:
I just stare at her from across the room or whatever distance.
Eventually she says: What?
Me: How did you do it?
Her: *confused expression* Do what?
Me: You know...
Her: No...
*lean in close and whisper in her ear*
Me: How did you get even more beautiful over summer?

Any ideas? :cheer:
MY GOD that was afc. lol.

today was my first day. a girl id seen around but was never cool enough to actually talk to sat behind me in math. i passed her a note that said "hi. whats your name" she replied "caitlin" i said "danno. i thought you're supposed to wear your best clothes on the first day of school" she: "whats that mean" me" :) nothing"

we later talked in class but it was a strict teacher so i didnt get around to getting a number. got two numbers today though, one from a hb9 and the other a hb7.5 not so bad if i say so myself.
 

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yea that was AFC

dont rely on pick up lines, but rely on urself knowing how to talk to girls

pick up lines are unnatural in my opinion
 

dannowillbookem

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Originally posted by defiancy
dont rely on pick up lines, but rely on urself knowing how to talk to girls

pick up lines are unnatural in my opinion
well it depends. if its not corny then it'll be easy to pull off. for instance "you'll do" or even delivering a lame overused line with a joking smile can make a girl laugh.

and if u can make a girl laugh, u can make her do anything.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you do try one of those lame pick-up lines, make sure you say it in a funny tone, otherwise you'll just be another loser trying to hit on her. If she laughs, continue the conversation from there; if not, hang your head and walk away in shame because you just made a stupid move trying one of those lame pick-up lines.
 

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Dude I am so fuc*ing amazing that chicks are usually the ones initiating convo, not the other way around. But rather then using a pickup line, ask them a question or soemthing and start a convo like that. Then you can judge how much she likes you and how worthy she is to be graced by the likes of yourself.
 

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Thats a sweet line, im definitely gonna use that one

Being AFC works in high school, thats whats great about it. If a girl thinks you are hot enough to get with and you have a good rep and you pull a line like that, you are golden
 

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Originally posted by Goofball
Well summer break is drawing to a close for me, and I'm just wondering if you guys can help me come up with some flity/witty pickup lines. Since I know how unclear that was, here's one I thought up:
I just stare at her from across the room or whatever distance.
Eventually she says: What?
Me: How did you do it?
Her: *confused expression* Do what?
Me: You know...
Her: No...
*lean in close and whisper in her ear*
Me: How did you get even more beautiful over summer?

Any ideas? :cheer:
Shouldn't it be something more like

*lean in close and whisper in her ear*
Me: I thought you were supposed to get more beautiful over the summer..
 

Goofball

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Originally posted by brad67
Thats a sweet line, im definitely gonna use that one

Being AFC works in high school, thats whats great about it. If a girl thinks you are hot enough to get with and you have a good rep and you pull a line like that, you are golden
Exactly and this girl appreciates 'AFC' stuff esp.

Still not seeing anymore ideas though!! :mad:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Man I don't get the big fuss about going back to school and approaching women. This and the last week of school are probably the easiest times to work your game.

All you gotta do is get her talking about her exciting summer, throw in a few things of your summer, and do your regular number/whatever close.
 
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