Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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End of summer

Goofball

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Well summer break is drawing to a close for me, and I'm just wondering if you guys can help me come up with some flity/witty pickup lines. Since I know how unclear that was, here's one I thought up:
I just stare at her from across the room or whatever distance.
Eventually she says: What?
Me: How did you do it?
Her: *confused expression* Do what?
Me: You know...
Her: No...
*lean in close and whisper in her ear*
Me: How did you get even more beautiful over summer?

Any ideas? :cheer:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dannowillbookem

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Originally posted by Goofball
Well summer break is drawing to a close for me, and I'm just wondering if you guys can help me come up with some flity/witty pickup lines. Since I know how unclear that was, here's one I thought up:
I just stare at her from across the room or whatever distance.
Eventually she says: What?
Me: How did you do it?
Her: *confused expression* Do what?
Me: You know...
Her: No...
*lean in close and whisper in her ear*
Me: How did you get even more beautiful over summer?

Any ideas? :cheer:
MY GOD that was afc. lol.

today was my first day. a girl id seen around but was never cool enough to actually talk to sat behind me in math. i passed her a note that said "hi. whats your name" she replied "caitlin" i said "danno. i thought you're supposed to wear your best clothes on the first day of school" she: "whats that mean" me" :) nothing"

we later talked in class but it was a strict teacher so i didnt get around to getting a number. got two numbers today though, one from a hb9 and the other a hb7.5 not so bad if i say so myself.
 

defiancy

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yea that was AFC

dont rely on pick up lines, but rely on urself knowing how to talk to girls

pick up lines are unnatural in my opinion
 

dannowillbookem

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Originally posted by defiancy
dont rely on pick up lines, but rely on urself knowing how to talk to girls

pick up lines are unnatural in my opinion
well it depends. if its not corny then it'll be easy to pull off. for instance "you'll do" or even delivering a lame overused line with a joking smile can make a girl laugh.

and if u can make a girl laugh, u can make her do anything.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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immrtlwun

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If you do try one of those lame pick-up lines, make sure you say it in a funny tone, otherwise you'll just be another loser trying to hit on her. If she laughs, continue the conversation from there; if not, hang your head and walk away in shame because you just made a stupid move trying one of those lame pick-up lines.
 

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Dude I am so fuc*ing amazing that chicks are usually the ones initiating convo, not the other way around. But rather then using a pickup line, ask them a question or soemthing and start a convo like that. Then you can judge how much she likes you and how worthy she is to be graced by the likes of yourself.
 

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Thats a sweet line, im definitely gonna use that one

Being AFC works in high school, thats whats great about it. If a girl thinks you are hot enough to get with and you have a good rep and you pull a line like that, you are golden
 

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Originally posted by Goofball
Well summer break is drawing to a close for me, and I'm just wondering if you guys can help me come up with some flity/witty pickup lines. Since I know how unclear that was, here's one I thought up:
I just stare at her from across the room or whatever distance.
Eventually she says: What?
Me: How did you do it?
Her: *confused expression* Do what?
Me: You know...
Her: No...
*lean in close and whisper in her ear*
Me: How did you get even more beautiful over summer?

Any ideas? :cheer:
Shouldn't it be something more like

*lean in close and whisper in her ear*
Me: I thought you were supposed to get more beautiful over the summer..
 

Goofball

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Originally posted by brad67
Thats a sweet line, im definitely gonna use that one

Being AFC works in high school, thats whats great about it. If a girl thinks you are hot enough to get with and you have a good rep and you pull a line like that, you are golden
Exactly and this girl appreciates 'AFC' stuff esp.

Still not seeing anymore ideas though!! :mad:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Man I don't get the big fuss about going back to school and approaching women. This and the last week of school are probably the easiest times to work your game.

All you gotta do is get her talking about her exciting summer, throw in a few things of your summer, and do your regular number/whatever close.
 
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