Met a girl over the internet who lives in Europe. Been talking to her for about 2 weeks. We've only talked over the phone once, at my request. She hasn't ever suggested the phone. We're always communicating through email and instant messenger, and now it's getting annoying, cause i'd rather speak over the phone, because instant messenger just isn't the same, the phone is more personal. I like this girl a lot so far, and would rather have phone conversations, not instant messenger conversations. Now i'm not saying i should be speaking to this girl everyday, i'm saying maybe once a week....but it seems she doesn't care about talking over the phone. I'm thinking i should just drop her. Cause if she was that interested, she'd want to speak on the phone sometimes. Should i drop her or what? Thanks.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
End it, or what?
- Thread starter No Escape
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She could always use a "calling card"..that's what i used when i called her. I spent $5.00 on one, which was good for about 20-25 minutes.Originally posted by Slickster
Do you live in Europe? Or do you plan on moving there?
If not what's the point?
If I were her I wouldn't want to waste money on a big phone bill either.
Aztec
Master Don Juan
Drop what? You don't have any relationship with this girl except via internet.
Maybe she doesn't have the money to call overseas or not really that in to you to spend money for phone chat.
Don't expect too much to come out of this. Just be happy that you have an internet girlfriend.
Maybe she doesn't have the money to call overseas or not really that in to you to spend money for phone chat.
Don't expect too much to come out of this. Just be happy that you have an internet girlfriend.
brat-buster
Don Juan
If you insist on speaking to your pen pal, then just tell her to pick up that little thing they call a cell phone, and dail and have a convo like normal people do.
Or if she refuses Then you may suggest you guys get a preist to enter a chat room and marry you guys online via instant message. Aside from that dude....fly overseas and meet her.
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Or if she refuses Then you may suggest you guys get a preist to enter a chat room and marry you guys online via instant message. Aside from that dude....fly overseas and meet her.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
Get out into the real world.
HeartlessBtch
Don Juan
:crackup:Originally posted by NewMan
Get out into the real world.
I'd never go to meet a chick in another country who i met off the internet. Unless of course she financed it. I see it as too risky in the sense that either i won't be into her or she won't be into me. It would suck if you spent $300 on a plane ticket for nothing.Originally posted by brat-buster
If you insist on speaking to your pen pal, then just tell her to pick up that little thing they call a cell phone, and dail and have a convo like normal people do.
Or if she refuses Then you may suggest you guys get a preist to enter a chat room and marry you guys online via instant message. Aside from that dude....fly overseas and meet her.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: