"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Emulating A Slutty Woman

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What things can a man do to emulate a slutty woman because I think that will help with pickup. You look around at male strippers (i.e. guys who get laid a lot, they do a lot of $hit that women do too). Like for eg shaving their public region, getting a tan, waxing their eyebrows, wearing skinny cut clothes, and so on. Anything else a slutty woman does that a man can do too?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mangotot said:
What things can a man do to emulate a slutty woman because I think that will help with pickup. You look around at male strippers (i.e. guys who get laid a lot, they do a lot of $hit that women do too). Like for eg shaving their public region, getting a tan, waxing their eyebrows, wearing skinny cut clothes, and so on. Anything else a slutty woman does that a man can do too?
Being able to be a male stripper is a good skill. These guys are masters at generating intense attraction and know what females want to see. They can get their c0cks sucked by 10 females in the same night and all the females saw it.

And to me these are "normal" guys who are simply in tip top shape and know the stripper game, I don't think they are nothing "special".

Each of us DJ's should have a more advanced degree in overall physical attraction, dominance and generating lust in a female. Most of it is non-verbal.

Women use their eyes more than we give them credit for. This could be 70% of your toolset and you don't even have to open your mouth.
 
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DaddyLongShanks said:
Being able to be a male stripper is a good skill. These guys are masters at generating intense attraction and know what females want to see. They can get their c0cks sucked by 10 females in the same night and all the females saw it.

And to me these are "normal" guys who are simply in tip top shape and know the stripper game, I don't think they are nothing "special".

Each of us DJ's should have a more advanced degree in overall physical attraction, dominance and generating lust in a female. Most of it is non-verbal.

Women use their eyes more than we give them credit for. This could be 70% of your toolset and you don't even have to open your mouth.
Just touching this. Want the other DJ's to comment about being in excessive physical condition and knowing how to drive animal like lust in women thru physical attraction and appearance.
 

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Most male strippers are closet gays who take it up the arse in back alleys during breaks and in between shifts.

Male strippers just have to have good bodies. That's it. Same with female strippers.
 
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El Payaso said:
Most male strippers are closet gays who take it up the arse in back alleys during breaks and in between shifts.

Male strippers just have to have good bodies. That's it. Same with female strippers.
I wasn't worried about the taking up the a$$ part... I was talking about excessive physical conditioining and knowing how to drive animal like lust in females thru appearance. That is something we can learn from male stripper and escorts. A large part of our game is physical and we should be pro's at it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is nothing to be learned from a male stripper.
They have 6 pac abs, and a slightly above average penis.
The females go to have a good time, and usually are wasted when they start sucking random stripper c*cks.

Have 6 pac abs, an unusually large penis.. isolate a drunk girl and whip it out in face. You'd be suprised how often they'll suck it.
 

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DaddyLongShanks said:
I was talking about excessive physical conditioining and knowing how to drive animal like lust in females thru appearance. That is something we can learn from male stripper and escorts. A large part of our game is physical and we should be pro's at it.
I get a lot of attention just walking down the street if dressed well. Physically I have been told I have the perfect body, sadly can't say the same about the face. I think it comes down to attitude and confidence. You have to walk down the street like you are the man and that you know that you are hot. As for "getting attention when dressed well" - I don't feel as confident when dressed rubbish so here in this situation do not project an aura that I am the man.
 
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