"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Employment as a Personal Trainer?

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Anybody know if a personal trainer is a feasible option as a part-time job? How hard is it to get certificated, and what's the general cost?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Google the websites for ACSM or NSCA certifications as they are considered the best certifications. NSCA-CPT or NSCA CSCS or one of the various ACSM certifications would be a good bet to get respect and a job at a health club. ACE (american council on exercise) cerfications and others are less well repected as they are much easier to get.

Do you have any sort of undergraduate degree in the biological science or exercise science, that would surely help too? Some of the above certifications (ASCM or NSCA) require 4 year degrees in order to take the exam.

There are also sports specific certifications...

most exams cost 120-400 to be certified
 

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One cynical view is your best credentials are your young and good looking.

The fitness centre can employ you cheaply and if you look good the ladies sign up (and gayboys).

I suspect if you match that criteria, they can cope with you part time, on part time wages of course.
 

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Originally posted by Road Demon
Google the websites for ACSM or NSCA certifications as they are considered the best certifications. NSCA-CPT or NSCA CSCS or one of the various ACSM certifications would be a good bet to get respect and a job at a health club. ACE (american council on exercise) cerfications and others are less well repected as they are much easier to get.

Do you have any sort of undergraduate degree in the biological science or exercise science, that would surely help too? Some of the above certifications (ASCM or NSCA) require 4 year degrees in order to take the exam.

There are also sports specific certifications...

most exams cost 120-400 to be certified
So what about online certificates like NESTA? They claim that their graduates are employed in nearly every state.
 
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