HaleyBaron
Master Don Juan
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Jumping off your porch is not a cliff.There’s a difference between calculated risk and jumping off a cliff.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Jumping off your porch is not a cliff.There’s a difference between calculated risk and jumping off a cliff.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I agree with you about choice. I don't think people should be forced. On the other hand I think it's unfortunate that a lot of people are going to get sick and die unecessarily because of disinformation.The long term health effects on humans are 100% unknown
I am happy to let everyone make their own choice. I am a big believer in freedom of choice.
Yes, agree with you completely about choice, but I fear if enough people remain unvaccinated, the government may get to the point of putting some real financial or other kind hurt on those people until they comply.I agree with you about choice. I don't think people should be forced. On the other hand I think it's unfortunate that a lot of people are going to get sick and die unecessarily because of disinformation.
What did you think of Nobel Prize winner Professor Luc Montagnier's thoughts that the vaccines are CREATING variants?
While it is understood that viruses mutate, causing variants, French Virologist and Nobel Prize Winner Luc Montagnier contends that “it is the vaccination that is creating the variants.”
Never did, never will. We control our own lives. Sometimes a vaccine refusal means life, sometimes death. What I do know is my life decisions are more important than posting about it on an internet forum, but to each his own…I may take it, I may not.
The harder I am pushed to take it, the less likely I will
Without individual freedoms you have a dictatorship.
I am content to let other's make their own choice.
How about you?
You going to support forcing people to take an injection of an unproven substance?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How about I wake you up:
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Give me some proof of your verbal claim big boy.How about I wake you up??
If police quit in droves over this, which they are threatening to do, you will have anarchy like you have never seen.
No, but forum rules allow me to give you badboy points based on disrespect of other members …Police are threatening to quit.
Military are threatening to quit.
With less police, crime rises .
Surely you can use logic "big boy"?
Well, I guess you’ve already forgotten your originally posted article which included the words ‘Wake up call’ , it’s Fri. night now, go find something useful to do…Really? But it's OK for a moderator to use the exact same words to me?
You said let me "wake you up"
So i addressed you that way.
You called me big boy.
So I addressed you that way.
Where is the issue?
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Your choice sir, I have no problem ejecting others from my life that don’t respect me.No worries, I have asked another moderator to cancel my account and delete all my posts.
If your goal was to kill the forum, congratulations. You are suceeding.
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The most problematic variant right now is the Delta variant, which originated in India, a country with very low vaccination rates.What did you think of Nobel Prize winner Professor Luc Montagnier's thoughts that the vaccines are CREATING variants?
While it is understood that viruses mutate, causing variants, French Virologist and Nobel Prize Winner Luc Montagnier contends that “it is the vaccination that is creating the variants.”
You really seem like an intelligent individual to me, why do you think YouTube finds it necessary to delete?YT deleted most of the other uploads. Catch it before it gets deleted or Dl and watch later.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This has nothing to do with intelligence. I am no smarter than you. This is a spiritual war between good & evil. I give all credit to the Holy Spirit.You really seem like an intelligent individual to me, why do you think YouTube finds it necessary to delete?
That's been obvious to me. Start a thread, I'll contribute some info.I actually predicted that this was a medical insurance recession/ depression/ crash, however you want to call it. Covid was just a cover up for something crashing on the financial side of healthcare, whether that's government medicaid, insurance money being squeezed, or hospitals losing profts in some way. I almost want to call 2020 the new 2008.
Covid in 2020-2021 is much different than 2008 (really the 2007-2012 period). In 2008, when the stock market collapsed and the economy tanked, it was at least safe to go to a bar without worrying about getting some potentially fatal respiratory disease. The stock market and economy tanked in 2020 for a few months, but the stock market has been on fire since May 2020. Then again, the stock market was strong from bottoming out in mid-March 2009 until reaching the October 2007 highs in March 2013. I was astounded in 2013 when 2007 levels were reaching in only 5.5 years. Stocks didn't reach 1929 levels after that crash until 1954.I actually predicted that this was a medical insurance recession/ depression/ crash, however you want to call it. Covid was just a cover up for something crashing on the financial side of healthcare, whether that's government medicaid, insurance money being squeezed, or hospitals losing profts in some way. I almost want to call 2020 the new 2008.
I was mostly referring to nurses getting laid off and people not being able to go to the hospital like usual. The hospitals have been intentionally being restrictive, which I suspect has everything to do with insurance and government healthcare.Covid in 2020-2021 is much different than 2008 (really the 2007-2012 period). In 2008, when the stock market collapsed and the economy tanked, it was at least safe to go to a bar without worrying about getting some potentially fatal respiratory disease. The stock market and economy tanked in 2020 for a few months, but the stock market has been on fire since May 2020. Then again, the stock market was strong from bottoming out in mid-March 2009 until reaching the October 2007 highs in March 2013. I was astounded in 2013 when 2007 levels were reaching in only 5.5 years. Stocks didn't reach 1929 levels after that crash until 1954.
I graduated in the 2007-08 school year and it was terrible. In Fall 2007, my interview pipeline dried up. I was getting ghosted by employers before the term ghosting became a thing. Some of my classmates told stories about hiring freezes and similar ghostings to mine. It was quite difficult to recover from that. Graduating into 2008 and taking a layoff at the beginning of COVID in 2020 were brutal for me, but I did get employed after 2008 and then re-employed in 2020. I don't know many people who took the double beating I took with 2008 and 2020. For men, employment status has an impact on dating outcomes for men who project a more middle class and higher type image. A man's SMV won't take a hit from unemployment if he's from the heavy tattooed, deadbeat, criminal type segment of men.
Nursing has had the reputation of being an in-demand and a secure job. Guess not.I was mostly referring to nurses getting laid off and people not being able to go to the hospital like usual. The hospitals have been intentionally being restrictive, which I suspect has everything to do with insurance and government healthcare.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.