"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Emotionless girl?

Thatonekid92

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I just started texting this girl and while she always responds to me, I'll say "Hey, I'm gonna go, I'll talk to you later!", and 45 mins later she'll say stuff like "Is it later yet?". The thing is, her responses are usually very vague...

Almost like when I just give up when she doesn't really respond to create a real conversation, she quickly jumps to her defense and says things like "I was going to message you today but you messaged me first, I promise!".

Any ideas/
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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usernamedox11

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Thatonekid92 said:
I just started texting this girl and while she always responds to me, I'll say "Hey, I'm gonna go, I'll talk to you later!", and 45 mins later she'll say stuff like "Is it later yet?". The thing is, her responses are usually very vague...

Almost like when I just give up when she doesn't really respond to create a real conversation, she quickly jumps to her defense and says things like "I was going to message you today but you messaged me first, I promise!".

Any ideas/
I have a rule I've been using the last few months. If a girl is annoying to speak to, I just next her.
 

devilkingx2

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don't give up, keep texting her,

how does texting her compare to the real life conversations you have?
 
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