Gentleman,
One of the things that we need to be aware of when dating is the level of emotional value a woman still has invested in an ex boyfriend. This value, in essence, varies dependent on whether or not she dated an alpha or a beta in her last serious relationship.
It's going to be "extremely difficult and dangerous" for a man to invest his own emotional wealth in a woman who was dumped by an alpha. The emotional value is so great that a man, regardless if he is an alpha or not, is going to have a long, uphill battle to negate the affect.
You may be asking yourself, why is this so important? If you are not interested in a long-term relationship than you can stop reading now. It may actually be advantageous to seek out a newly single woman who was dumped by an Alpha. She will be more apt to pursue some sort of revenge sexual encounter.
For those of you who want to pursue a long term than listen up.
Women who are "still hung up" on their ex's will constantly throw up **** tests as a defense mechanism to turn off potential guys. After the whoring phase (usually 1-3 months after a breakup when a woman will seek out revenge sex) a woman will make you wait. She will generally use excuses such as, I need to trust you before we do it, and I'm not ready yet, etc. The truth of the matter is that she is keeping herself available for her ex alpha if he does decide to make a return appearance.
A women who was dumped by an alpha will be transfixed on getting him back. She may say that she is "over him" but rest assured she is not. She will never be with you in a relationship and will have no problems with lying/cheating on you if for some reason the Alpha reenters the picture.
My best advice is to carefully screen any potential date prospect to make sure she is not an Alpha widow. How do you do this? Ask questions. Read between the lines. Women speak in code many times. Special caution to any women who lost their virginity to an Alpha or who are religious. That combination can be dually dangerous as she will think he as the "one" as she gave it up to him.
One of the things that we need to be aware of when dating is the level of emotional value a woman still has invested in an ex boyfriend. This value, in essence, varies dependent on whether or not she dated an alpha or a beta in her last serious relationship.
It's going to be "extremely difficult and dangerous" for a man to invest his own emotional wealth in a woman who was dumped by an alpha. The emotional value is so great that a man, regardless if he is an alpha or not, is going to have a long, uphill battle to negate the affect.
You may be asking yourself, why is this so important? If you are not interested in a long-term relationship than you can stop reading now. It may actually be advantageous to seek out a newly single woman who was dumped by an Alpha. She will be more apt to pursue some sort of revenge sexual encounter.
For those of you who want to pursue a long term than listen up.
Women who are "still hung up" on their ex's will constantly throw up **** tests as a defense mechanism to turn off potential guys. After the whoring phase (usually 1-3 months after a breakup when a woman will seek out revenge sex) a woman will make you wait. She will generally use excuses such as, I need to trust you before we do it, and I'm not ready yet, etc. The truth of the matter is that she is keeping herself available for her ex alpha if he does decide to make a return appearance.
A women who was dumped by an alpha will be transfixed on getting him back. She may say that she is "over him" but rest assured she is not. She will never be with you in a relationship and will have no problems with lying/cheating on you if for some reason the Alpha reenters the picture.
My best advice is to carefully screen any potential date prospect to make sure she is not an Alpha widow. How do you do this? Ask questions. Read between the lines. Women speak in code many times. Special caution to any women who lost their virginity to an Alpha or who are religious. That combination can be dually dangerous as she will think he as the "one" as she gave it up to him.