"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Emotional Satisfaction?

DJLiquid

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Been a member of this board for some time...I went from being an AFC.....to being able to get girls pretty much every time I go out....having girls calling me to go out...etc...

But now I have hit this "place" that I can't really explain....when I came to this site...all I wanted to do was just get girls...but now it seems that hooking up with girls...is not a satisfying as it once was...

Have any of you guys come to a point...where just getting laid is not satisfying anymore?....a point where you look for something more?...some emotional satisfaction?....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Iamnotacrook

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Yes, but now you've cheapened the act of sex, thus ruining it for the emotional bond meant to accompany it. Now that you're a certified playboy, I can only reccomend killing yourself.
 

Desdinova

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That happened to me. It became an incredibly boring repetitive cycle. Meet girl, get her number, date her, fvck her, break up. Repeat.

You don't get that cycle when you're in a LTR. It's a one way path and is always bringing on new challenges. It's not boring (as long as you don't let it become boring).

However, until you find a decent woman to have a LTR with, you'll have to pass time by running in the hamster wheel of dating.
 
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