"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Emotional Satisfaction?

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DJLiquid

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Been a member of this board for some time...I went from being an AFC.....to being able to get girls pretty much every time I go out....having girls calling me to go out...etc...

But now I have hit this "place" that I can't really explain....when I came to this site...all I wanted to do was just get girls...but now it seems that hooking up with girls...is not a satisfying as it once was...

Have any of you guys come to a point...where just getting laid is not satisfying anymore?....a point where you look for something more?...some emotional satisfaction?....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Iamnotacrook

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Yes, but now you've cheapened the act of sex, thus ruining it for the emotional bond meant to accompany it. Now that you're a certified playboy, I can only reccomend killing yourself.
 
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That happened to me. It became an incredibly boring repetitive cycle. Meet girl, get her number, date her, fvck her, break up. Repeat.

You don't get that cycle when you're in a LTR. It's a one way path and is always bringing on new challenges. It's not boring (as long as you don't let it become boring).

However, until you find a decent woman to have a LTR with, you'll have to pass time by running in the hamster wheel of dating.
 
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