“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Emotional outbursts.

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What can be said about girls and their emotional outbursts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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'outbursts.' The inventors of the english language called it that for a reason.

Think about it...
 

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Depends on the gravity of the situation causing the outburst. If she breaks a nail and starts crying - give her space, shes just being human and emotional. If her mom has cancer and home life is falling apart... take her hand, look her in the eyes, tell her everything will be ok, and give her a hug.

Being a good MAN is infinately more important, and fulfilling, than being a good DJ.
 

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Anthony, what you speak of is true. But it is far more complex. You can not just say "it'll be okay" to everything, espically to the circumstances you presented. If you acually have been in that sitution, it is very hard to deal with.

You have to be there for them, not say a few words and leave. It can be very stressful. You begin to feel just as bad as she does...
 

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Originally posted by Fitch
Anthony, what you speak of is true. But it is far more complex. You can not just say "it'll be okay" to everything, espically to the circumstances you presented. If you acually have been in that sitution, it is very hard to deal with.

You have to be there for them, not say a few words and leave. It can be very stressful. You begin to feel just as bad as she does...
You missread my post. A girl I was out with sat night WAS in that situation... and I was there for her. We talked about it for an hour, in fact. But in essance, I just let her speak, I held her hand, I listened, I told her it was going to be ok, and I held her untill she was happy again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well that is a bit odd. One hour and she is all better again... it is not that easy.
 

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I dindnt take her moms cancer away, thats not my job. I helped her find strength, so she could release herself from blame/responsibility and enjoy her night.
 
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