"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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justjosh47

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Yea well I have been dating this girl for about three months at my college out of state , well first time I met here I thought she was anoying and kind of *****y , well I started to talk to her more and I became more attracted to her , well I later found out she had a boy freind that did not go to school with us , but that did not stop me and I took her on a few date knowing this , even though I had a limited buget , no car and Im a prety avrege guy I charmed this girl with my DJ skills and I didnt fall for her mind games or B.S.
So she was suposed to drive up from northcarolina to Virgina whare I live becouse she had to attend a freinds weding in D.C, so I offerd for her to stay at my house , she bought the Idea and seemed exited about it , well it turns out she ended up not going and I was diaponted becouse I had this hole plan on how I was going to ask her out , well the other night I couldent take it any more I felt like I was in 7th grade agian and I called her and told her I wanted to be a couple and I sed even though you probly will not say yes right now I just want you to think about it, she preseted to tell me that I canfuse her more then evrey guy she has ever dated , she sed she has not seen me in a few weeks and she needs more time and she told me she had to wait until things calm down for her to consider it .
So do I still have shot ? whats me next step?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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am4591

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You might still have a shot but you fukked up by telling her you want to be a couple. What's your next step? No idea but if I'd done something like that, I'd back off and let her be the one to call me. Meanwhile, I'd be scouting around for fresh meat in case this one didn't work out.
 

Zeus

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I charmed this girl with my DJ skills
If you had any DJ skills you woulden't break down like you did man. And you gave all the power to her.. Why should u ever give power to a girl??

Let me give u a tip bro, date other girls! And make sure that she notices it and don't call her nomore!! She will come back to you, for sure.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Trogdawg

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"What can I say , Im a work in progress, Im only 18 , it's better that im learning now then when im 30 ."

Good call.

And for your story. I'd call it quits and chase another piece. Heck your in college!!!
 
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