"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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emotional argument vs. logical argument

TheFlyingMan

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OK, now I understand that women are emotional creatures, and we can't convince them using logic.

The Q I have then, is how?! What is emotional convincing?

Let's say a hypothetical scenario of going out drinking on a weekday.

A guy's thought (logical) might be:
- Hmm, I have to work tomorrow, so if I drink I will be farked for work tomorrow, so let's not go.

To convince, we'll use logical arguments like "It doesn't really feel that bad when we go without sleep. Once work starts, you'll forget that you're tired."

A girl's thought might be:
- I feel like shvt today, I don't wanna go.

How do we convince her? What's a few good arguments / ways of thinking?

This is not a question on "how do I get a girl out on a weekday" but I wanna understand the principles behind emotion.

Also, I read a few articles that say to get a woman to have sex, they don't have to be horny, just emotional. How do we get them emotional?

Please discuss!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you could figure this out then you can figure out women. Guess my point is that it is useless "to try and figure it out".
 

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I'm not really sure, about the logical part but you can use your game to stimulate there emotion. Kinda like beginning of approach you may not be able to get a girl to follow you to another part of the area, but if you get her attracted and build some rapport you may be able to get them to move.


As for the getting them into bed you don't have to, just game that like if it was a love novel, one minute she was happy,then curious,then let down, then happy again, then feeling jealous because your talking to another girl,then she ends up getting kissed by you and feels that she won you from the other girl. You can use stories to make a girl go on a emotional ride. Best one to me is jealousy because that really lets them know emotionally that they do like you. Also you can gauge this by her Buying temperatue.

Its kinda like saying "You know when I get home with your were going to fuvk right?" that is logical, and its more likely she would say no your not even if she really wants too. Instead you may get her emotionally hyped and after suggest to go check out her fish to see if there actually big.

Read posts about, Buying temperature and compliance to get a better idea.
 

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TheFlyingMan said:
OK, now I understand that women are emotional creatures, and we can't convince them using logic.

The Q I have then, is how?! What is emotional convincing?

Let's say a hypothetical scenario of going out drinking on a weekday.

A guy's thought (logical) might be:
- Hmm, I have to work tomorrow, so if I drink I will be farked for work tomorrow, so let's not go.

To convince, we'll use logical arguments like "It doesn't really feel that bad when we go without sleep. Once work starts, you'll forget that you're tired."

A girl's thought might be:
- I feel like shvt today, I don't wanna go.

How do we convince her? What's a few good arguments / ways of thinking?

This is not a question on "how do I get a girl out on a weekday" but I wanna understand the principles behind emotion.

Also, I read a few articles that say to get a woman to have sex, they don't have to be horny, just emotional. How do we get them emotional?

Please discuss!
I like the way you are thinking, but I think you are looking at it the wrong way. It is not logical v. emotional argument; it is logical argument v. her having an emotional basis for wanting to go out that will override any logical constraints.

In other words if she will get sufficient pleasure, fun and enjoyment (or other emotional resonses) out of it she will not care if she feels bad.

So, the good news is that logic won't keep her from going out. The bad news is that if you can get her to feel those emotions strongly enough you don't have to go out drinking with her - you can just have her come over and sleep with you.

It is really your overall game that will make her feel the emotions necesary to lose sleep and feel like crap the next day so she can hang out with you.

Never waste your time trying to give her reasons to hang out with you - just make yourself seem like a party that she would have to be crazy to miss out on.

Although, if she is into you and just needs a little push you can always try one of the following: (keep in ming I have no idea where you are at emotionally with her)

"Oh, that's too bad you can't go, it is going to be a good time - I'm sorry you'll miss out- see ya!"

or if she is a 9 or a 10 and you have balls :

"Oh, I guess you do need your beauty rest, I'm sorry you'll miss out- see ya!"
 
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