"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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emotional argument vs. logical argument

TheFlyingMan

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OK, now I understand that women are emotional creatures, and we can't convince them using logic.

The Q I have then, is how?! What is emotional convincing?

Let's say a hypothetical scenario of going out drinking on a weekday.

A guy's thought (logical) might be:
- Hmm, I have to work tomorrow, so if I drink I will be farked for work tomorrow, so let's not go.

To convince, we'll use logical arguments like "It doesn't really feel that bad when we go without sleep. Once work starts, you'll forget that you're tired."

A girl's thought might be:
- I feel like shvt today, I don't wanna go.

How do we convince her? What's a few good arguments / ways of thinking?

This is not a question on "how do I get a girl out on a weekday" but I wanna understand the principles behind emotion.

Also, I read a few articles that say to get a woman to have sex, they don't have to be horny, just emotional. How do we get them emotional?

Please discuss!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you could figure this out then you can figure out women. Guess my point is that it is useless "to try and figure it out".
 

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I'm not really sure, about the logical part but you can use your game to stimulate there emotion. Kinda like beginning of approach you may not be able to get a girl to follow you to another part of the area, but if you get her attracted and build some rapport you may be able to get them to move.


As for the getting them into bed you don't have to, just game that like if it was a love novel, one minute she was happy,then curious,then let down, then happy again, then feeling jealous because your talking to another girl,then she ends up getting kissed by you and feels that she won you from the other girl. You can use stories to make a girl go on a emotional ride. Best one to me is jealousy because that really lets them know emotionally that they do like you. Also you can gauge this by her Buying temperatue.

Its kinda like saying "You know when I get home with your were going to fuvk right?" that is logical, and its more likely she would say no your not even if she really wants too. Instead you may get her emotionally hyped and after suggest to go check out her fish to see if there actually big.

Read posts about, Buying temperature and compliance to get a better idea.
 

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TheFlyingMan said:
OK, now I understand that women are emotional creatures, and we can't convince them using logic.

The Q I have then, is how?! What is emotional convincing?

Let's say a hypothetical scenario of going out drinking on a weekday.

A guy's thought (logical) might be:
- Hmm, I have to work tomorrow, so if I drink I will be farked for work tomorrow, so let's not go.

To convince, we'll use logical arguments like "It doesn't really feel that bad when we go without sleep. Once work starts, you'll forget that you're tired."

A girl's thought might be:
- I feel like shvt today, I don't wanna go.

How do we convince her? What's a few good arguments / ways of thinking?

This is not a question on "how do I get a girl out on a weekday" but I wanna understand the principles behind emotion.

Also, I read a few articles that say to get a woman to have sex, they don't have to be horny, just emotional. How do we get them emotional?

Please discuss!
I like the way you are thinking, but I think you are looking at it the wrong way. It is not logical v. emotional argument; it is logical argument v. her having an emotional basis for wanting to go out that will override any logical constraints.

In other words if she will get sufficient pleasure, fun and enjoyment (or other emotional resonses) out of it she will not care if she feels bad.

So, the good news is that logic won't keep her from going out. The bad news is that if you can get her to feel those emotions strongly enough you don't have to go out drinking with her - you can just have her come over and sleep with you.

It is really your overall game that will make her feel the emotions necesary to lose sleep and feel like crap the next day so she can hang out with you.

Never waste your time trying to give her reasons to hang out with you - just make yourself seem like a party that she would have to be crazy to miss out on.

Although, if she is into you and just needs a little push you can always try one of the following: (keep in ming I have no idea where you are at emotionally with her)

"Oh, that's too bad you can't go, it is going to be a good time - I'm sorry you'll miss out- see ya!"

or if she is a 9 or a 10 and you have balls :

"Oh, I guess you do need your beauty rest, I'm sorry you'll miss out- see ya!"
 
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