"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Emergency Decision

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Now, i feel really stupid, some girl has been after me to meet with her (about a 6) for such a long time and eventually i gave in, especially as my usual crowd are all away. (I would not want too be seen dead with this girl) figured a little practice cant harm me. But now iv decided i really cant be bothered to go. Iv bailed on her before, so i feel bad. What would you do.

Give in to laziness or desperation?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't ask us what you want man. Only you know that.

Look at the pros and cons and make the decision

Good luck mate :)
 

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Damn, i knew that was what i was gonna get, thats the kinda advice that id give. I cancelled. Just had my first driving lesson :D, except he cut it short by about half an hour.
 

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i know it may be to late now as you have canceled already but if you want her as a freind you should not have canceled as it has probably upset her.
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
i know it may be to late now as you have canceled already but if you want her as a freind you should not have canceled as it has probably upset her.
ya think??
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
i know it may be to late now as you have canceled already but if you want her as a freind you should not have canceled as it has probably upset her.
its alright, shes a friend of my m8s gf, their circle is very distant from mine, ill live
:), plus it was today
 
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You should be the 'Chooser' - this is the man's domain!!! Don't let a woman or your desperation dictate the agenda!!! Be a man!!
 

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Originally posted by JSH
Now, i feel really stupid, some girl has been after me to meet with her (about a 6) for such a long time and eventually i gave in, especially as my usual crowd are all away. (I would not want too be seen dead with this girl) figured a little practice cant harm me. But now iv decided i really cant be bothered to go. Iv bailed on her before, so i feel bad. What would you do.

Give in to laziness or desperation?
Remember this when you build up enough courage to ask a hot girl out, and she stands you up.
 

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Gun *ccok* BOOM.....SPLATER *gasp* *screaming* frantic phone beeping *sirens* ~fin~
 
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