"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Emergency Decision

JSH

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Now, i feel really stupid, some girl has been after me to meet with her (about a 6) for such a long time and eventually i gave in, especially as my usual crowd are all away. (I would not want too be seen dead with this girl) figured a little practice cant harm me. But now iv decided i really cant be bothered to go. Iv bailed on her before, so i feel bad. What would you do.

Give in to laziness or desperation?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sammo

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Don't ask us what you want man. Only you know that.

Look at the pros and cons and make the decision

Good luck mate :)
 

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Damn, i knew that was what i was gonna get, thats the kinda advice that id give. I cancelled. Just had my first driving lesson :D, except he cut it short by about half an hour.
 

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i know it may be to late now as you have canceled already but if you want her as a freind you should not have canceled as it has probably upset her.
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
i know it may be to late now as you have canceled already but if you want her as a freind you should not have canceled as it has probably upset her.
ya think??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JSH

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
i know it may be to late now as you have canceled already but if you want her as a freind you should not have canceled as it has probably upset her.
its alright, shes a friend of my m8s gf, their circle is very distant from mine, ill live
:), plus it was today
 
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You should be the 'Chooser' - this is the man's domain!!! Don't let a woman or your desperation dictate the agenda!!! Be a man!!
 

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Originally posted by JSH
Now, i feel really stupid, some girl has been after me to meet with her (about a 6) for such a long time and eventually i gave in, especially as my usual crowd are all away. (I would not want too be seen dead with this girl) figured a little practice cant harm me. But now iv decided i really cant be bothered to go. Iv bailed on her before, so i feel bad. What would you do.

Give in to laziness or desperation?
Remember this when you build up enough courage to ask a hot girl out, and she stands you up.
 

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Gun *ccok* BOOM.....SPLATER *gasp* *screaming* frantic phone beeping *sirens* ~fin~
 
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