"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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*emergency 26 nov* at her place, last week good, this week...

DJBaron

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last nite at her place, last week good, this week mixed

yo what up all?

i am lost here. this girl gave me clear signals last week but this week im here and all i'm catching is a drift of the dredded 'just friends'... she said the problem is her ex boyfriend since it was LTR she needs time to adjust or some bull****.. now i'm here, and last week we met up and hooked up hard... good signals! this week its total bull**** she is giving me cold signals hardcore... i mentioned sleeping over and she totally made it clear she thinks its 'wierd'...

what do u guys recommend? ?I got some beers hoping to open the situation a little she seems tense but at this point I feel like this is total bs and i wanna bail.. friends with girls is BS as we know but this I thought at least a nice evening of cuddling and making out or something... but im feeling totally shafted..

let me know what u guys think... perhaps she just needs to feel more into it or maybe I should bounce...

let me know within 1 hour ill make my decision...
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CORVETTE06

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act like u dont give a damn..dont make a big deal about it... let her chase after you.
 

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Ask her to go out with a group of her friends. Then very casually engage one of her group, or use the social proof of being surrounded by other women as a springboard for an easy approach. When she sees other women attracted to you, then it is an easy litmus test to measure her interest. Don't overdo it; be subtle and suave, but with this method you win either way.
 

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what happened...

it ended up nicely... but im confused! gonna make a new post as its a new subject...
 
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