"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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*emergency 26 nov* at her place, last week good, this week...

DJBaron

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last nite at her place, last week good, this week mixed

yo what up all?

i am lost here. this girl gave me clear signals last week but this week im here and all i'm catching is a drift of the dredded 'just friends'... she said the problem is her ex boyfriend since it was LTR she needs time to adjust or some bull****.. now i'm here, and last week we met up and hooked up hard... good signals! this week its total bull**** she is giving me cold signals hardcore... i mentioned sleeping over and she totally made it clear she thinks its 'wierd'...

what do u guys recommend? ?I got some beers hoping to open the situation a little she seems tense but at this point I feel like this is total bs and i wanna bail.. friends with girls is BS as we know but this I thought at least a nice evening of cuddling and making out or something... but im feeling totally shafted..

let me know what u guys think... perhaps she just needs to feel more into it or maybe I should bounce...

let me know within 1 hour ill make my decision...
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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act like u dont give a damn..dont make a big deal about it... let her chase after you.
 

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Ask her to go out with a group of her friends. Then very casually engage one of her group, or use the social proof of being surrounded by other women as a springboard for an easy approach. When she sees other women attracted to you, then it is an easy litmus test to measure her interest. Don't overdo it; be subtle and suave, but with this method you win either way.
 

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what happened...

it ended up nicely... but im confused! gonna make a new post as its a new subject...
 
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