I hated change. I would rarely go out of my comfort zone. I get anxiety everyday whenever I think about the social interactions I’m going to encounter throughout my day, whether it’s school, work, or small gatherings. Since joining the forums, I’ve disciplined myself into never breaking my frame. I’ve built up enough confidence to do things I would never do before. I found that going in there without giving it too much thought has worked wonders. Once things are set in motion, it’s usually smooth sailing from there. There are constant barriers in my mind that want to keep me from improving myself, from proving me wrong whenever I have negative thoughts. This is just like the feeling you get before you jump into a pool. You’re going to hesitate. You’re going to worry about how cold the water is going to be against your skin. But once you make that jump, everything turns out to be all right. You can’t let fear control you. It is just an illusion that holds you back from doing new and exciting things that will change your life for the better. I have to keep reminding myself that it is all in my head. The way you see yourself is the way others will see you.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Embracing change
- Thread starter Gan
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Change is only good if the result is an improvement.
Change for sake of change is insane.
That's what I meant
Change is only good if the result is an improvement.
Change for sake of change is insane.
strictly improvement. I'm not going to force myself to do something that doesn't fall into who I am or what I want to become, that would be crazy