Embarrassing drunk post: the dry spell chronicles

[GoodMan32]

I don't think you are the kind of guy who would enjoy hunting for pussie for 1-2 hours at a time at a mall or grocery store on a regular basis.

Getting conventional sex can be challenging. For a lot of men, it's going to take a lot of effort.

I also can't imagine you going to bars 2-3 nights per week, which is a good idea if you have 0 woman options in your life, don't want to approach in non-bar venues, and don't have any good hobbies/social circle options.

No, I wouldn't enjoy hunting for cooch for 1-2 hours at a time in commercial establishments.

Had I never started my backup plan, I likely would have continued searching for cooch through tech methods.

I also might, without coming out and doing an official pursual, up my flirting game. I got my last instance of free sex from flirting with a woman I met organically; it can happen (She worked in the building where I live. Which brings me to mention another point: I lack the aversion many men have to sh1tting where I eat, which worked to my advantage in my last instance of free sex)

Edit: To clarify on what I just said, I won't ask out a woman I work with, live in the same building as, or who works in the building where I live. But if an opportunity comes my way, I won't turn it down.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I know what you mean. Even though dry spells have pretty much become a way of life for me (4 years since my last free sex...and before that, I went 6 years between free sex), dry spells make you wonder what's wrong with you, wonder what you're doing wrong, etc.

This sounds more like a drought than a dry spell

If your going over 2 years without sex you're going to lose all sense of your sexuality and that's not a position you want to be in as a man

really you need to take serious action wether that be heading off to Asia or book in some escorts for girl friend experiences

Do something

 

[Solomon]

I don't see anything wrong with 6 months, or even a year. The older I get the less time/effort I put into chasing women because I realize life is short and there goals I want to meet. I don't see wrong with taking frequent breaks dealing with women if you're working on your purpose. I remember in 2018 I didn't get laid for 6 months but I was locked in and at that time made more money than ever at that point in my life. Funny enough 2019 I blew it all chasing after women and dates etc. Now if you're not getting any because you're out there. Then either you're not hunting hard enough or something could be wonky

Personally, I'm about to take a break from dating I know that sounds weird since June just started but honestly, I'm burned out. Had some very lame dates this year. I need to focus on myself I have gone on moe dates in the last 2 years since Pre-Covid (2019).

I think were dry spells and droughts can be dangerous, is entertaining women you may not be attracted to or dong goofy stuff. Trust me I've been there more than I care to admit

 

[DJ Novice]

OP, I don’t know how old you are. I’ll be 58 this year and I find I really enjoy my low cost lifestyle, peace, quiet and independence when I’m single.

If you add up the cost of p*ssy in terms of what you have to give up for it, I find it is rarely worth it in the long term.

Enjoy your time solo.

 

[New_Journey]

@Gamisch , what do you mean by dry spell? Many men think this is a bad thing, but think about it. You have not had puzzy because:
1. You are working on getting puzzy and no woman wants you or
2. You are busy working on your goals?

Maybe you are not investing enough time into approaching women, going out, the more time you do that the better, you always can allocate more time to get women from your goals, but in reality who the fvck would want to trade women for goals.

 

[Gamisch]

@Gamisch , what do you mean by dry spell? Many men think this is a bad thing, but think about it. You have not had puzzy because:
1. You are working on getting puzzy and no woman wants you or
2. You are busy working on your goals?

Maybe you are not investing enough time into approaching women, going out, the more time you do that the better, you always can allocate more time to get women from your goals, but in reality who the fvck would want to trade women for goals.

I mean no p00sy. Funnily enough I do get plenty of attention, got approached couple of times but my recent dates all went south...even though I have soooo much more to offer than I did had ever before.

Can't put it anyway else...not the first time I my life ofcourse I am without box. And won't be the last.

I'm working on my goals like never before... finally got a winning formula, it just takes tons of effort and hard work. 7 days per week. But I'm build for that.

That last sentence is gold imo...I was that guy and I'm paying the price now( by having kids with a crazy retarded woman)..

 

[Gamisch]

I don't see anything wrong with 6 months, or even a year. The older I get the less time/effort I put into chasing women because I realize life is short and there goals I want to meet. I don't see wrong with taking frequent breaks dealing with women if you're working on your purpose. I remember in 2018 I didn't get laid for 6 months but I was locked in and at that time made more money than ever at that point in my life. Funny enough 2019 I blew it all chasing after women and dates etc. Now if you're not getting any because you're out there. Then either you're not hunting hard enough or something could be wonky

Personally, I'm about to take a break from dating I know that sounds weird since June just started but honestly, I'm burned out. Had some very lame dates this year. I need to focus on myself I have gone on moe dates in the last 2 years since Pre-Covid (2019).

I think were dry spells and droughts can be dangerous, is entertaining women you may not be attracted to or dong goofy stuff. Trust me I've been there more than I care to admit

Damn y'all inspiring.

Things will turn out fine ,just shared how things going. Just met a woman who surprisingly is acting like a submissive woman who can actually see what I'm about ( it ain't hard to tell by the way).

Like @New_Journey said, I think that at the end of the day it's WAY more valuable to come from nothing and yet make that transition and rise up. Let me repeat that for the people in the back of the class: you can get women and dates because that is the most important aspect of your life while you neglect all the other shyte, but you will be a dancing monkey who has to lie to create an image.

I gambled on rising up and WHEN I do meet a woman who is interested I can 100,000,000 % confidently take up the task. If she's not interested I will smirk and wish her all the best.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Damn y'all inspiring.

Things will turn out fine ,just shared how things going. Just met a woman who surprisingly is acting like a submissive woman who can actually see what I'm about ( it ain't hard to tell by the way).

Like @New_Journey said, I think that at the end of the day it's WAY more valuable to come from nothing and yet make that transition and rise up. Let me repeat that for the people in the back of the class: you can get women and dates because that is the most important aspect of your life while you neglect all the other shyte, but you will be a dancing monkey who has to lie to create an image.

I gambled on rising up and WHEN I do meet a woman who is interested I can 100,000,000 % confidently take up the task. If she's not interested I will smirk and wish her all the best.