"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So last night I was hanging out with my girlfriend, and things were going great. Neither of us have had sex before and we both really wanted to. However, I couldn't get an erection. I was really really nervous, and my heart was pounding so incredibly fast. We had been hanging out for like 4 hours, and it was really easy to get an erection in the begginning, but as time went on, it became more difficult. Even after that, she started masturbating me while we were making out, and I wasn't hard when she started but after she got going I got hard, but then after she stopped my erection went away quickly. The first few times we hungout I was able to get hard for the whole time, but after a while my balls hurt soo bad, which I read was a result of swelling due to sperm buildup. She said it was fine, and I tried to explain to her that it was because I was so nervous, which I was, and she said she understood. I'm just so embarrassed. I don't know why I couldn't get hard right before sex! Ughhh I'm so embarrassed. Any advice on how to fix this?
Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude, that happens often. Next time, don't anticipate the moment so much; and just let it happen.
 
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hopefully it was just one time. If not, it sounds like something for a urologist
 
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Faded Image said:
don't anticipate the moment so much; and just let it happen.
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It is all in the head man. Like you said your heart was racing and your thoughts were probably also. At first you are probably putting to much pressure on yourself. You must relax and stop thinking how you want to make it so good for her, you want to last, you don't want to suck etc etc.

Start thinking positive thoughts like this will be fun for the both of us, or how good she looks etc. Good luck man
 
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It's called Erectile Dysfunction

Sounds like yours is more pyschological though.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I remember my first time. I told myself being nervous wasn't going to do shlt for me and just said fvck it and banged. Worked out pretty well. Don't be a puss. Suck it up and just fvck. =D
 
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