"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So last night I was hanging out with my girlfriend, and things were going great. Neither of us have had sex before and we both really wanted to. However, I couldn't get an erection. I was really really nervous, and my heart was pounding so incredibly fast. We had been hanging out for like 4 hours, and it was really easy to get an erection in the begginning, but as time went on, it became more difficult. Even after that, she started masturbating me while we were making out, and I wasn't hard when she started but after she got going I got hard, but then after she stopped my erection went away quickly. The first few times we hungout I was able to get hard for the whole time, but after a while my balls hurt soo bad, which I read was a result of swelling due to sperm buildup. She said it was fine, and I tried to explain to her that it was because I was so nervous, which I was, and she said she understood. I'm just so embarrassed. I don't know why I couldn't get hard right before sex! Ughhh I'm so embarrassed. Any advice on how to fix this?
Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dude, that happens often. Next time, don't anticipate the moment so much; and just let it happen.
 
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hopefully it was just one time. If not, it sounds like something for a urologist
 
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Faded Image said:
don't anticipate the moment so much; and just let it happen.
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It is all in the head man. Like you said your heart was racing and your thoughts were probably also. At first you are probably putting to much pressure on yourself. You must relax and stop thinking how you want to make it so good for her, you want to last, you don't want to suck etc etc.

Start thinking positive thoughts like this will be fun for the both of us, or how good she looks etc. Good luck man
 
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It's called Erectile Dysfunction

Sounds like yours is more pyschological though.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I remember my first time. I told myself being nervous wasn't going to do shlt for me and just said fvck it and banged. Worked out pretty well. Don't be a puss. Suck it up and just fvck. =D
 
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