Embarrassed to be seen with HB1-6s

[TheStig]

Or maybe Im just a shallow guy.

Nothing wrong with being shallow. Why be with someone you aren't attracted to?

 

[evan12]

Basically I get embarrassed being seen in public with girls who are under a 7. I was on a date with a 6 the other day and it seemed people were giving me the "you can do better" look Because of this i didnt want to kino her and i tried to get her in private most of the time.

Im about a 7 but i can dress my ass off so it makes me look better. My friends say i should be shooting for 7 and up but for some reason the 6s and below are always attracted to me. I always them down because of this thinking. Is it and ego thing?

Is my thinking is normal or bad? Im leaning more towards the bad side because of the fact that im caring about what other people think . Is it

I avoid public places when I am with <6 girls , but in your age who care, as long as she is not your gf .

 

[big weezy]

does this apply also if you're with a skanky HB who's hot.. you know fake hair extentions lots of make up, wh0rish hooker looking type.. surely women would not be interested in you thereafter as they dont want to be associated in that same bracket as being your 'type'?

that's what i've found anyway.. i'm surprised though that an ugly chick with you would give you more value than a HB8 skanky looking hoe in their eyes.

 

[bigneil]

The most I important thing for guys is:

1) weight
2) age
3) looks

Weight is deadly, anything more than 5 lbs a girl is done. Age is only relevant if the girl wants to get married, over 30 you are done.

Interesting that Trump doesn't list his age (recommended by mods a while back to put questions/advice in perspective).

For me, 41 was my best age. I regularly pick up women in their 20's. If you stay in shape you can improve with age. I've dated 8 hot girls in the past 2 years (and only had to pay 2). When you are making $90 an hour running your own business they want to get married even if you are over 30, trust me.

 

[casaanova]

Read my sig.

Women attract women, and a man is considered desirable as long as he has a woman. Even if he pays her for social proof. Having a 5 on your arm is better than having no women on your arm. Why do you think some guys bring their sisters and moms into clubs with them?

True. It should also be said that you can't be blatantly in the friendzone with the girl either - if you're shopping with her at victoria's secret as she's checking out other guys, don't expect other women to be throwing their numbers at you. U dont have to be banging her persay, but don't be her doormat either

 

[youngmack]

I definitely get it, funny things is i don't really like going out wit HB 9-10s.
Now a day dudes put b1tches on pedestals and would kill just for some poon.

I remember i was out with a 9 and some random dudes started talking sh1t . They was like how they would take her from me easily, calling her all types of names, and calling me a "pvssy nigga".

And the crazy thing is they was about to try and jump me but a cop car pulled up so they didnt.

Honestly i'd prefer going out with 7-8s (around my average) to avoid less drama, but i would prefer banging the 9-10s lol

 

[Trump]

Interesting that Trump doesn't list his age (recommended by mods a while back to put questions/advice in perspective).

For me, 41 was my best age. I regularly pick up women in their 20's. If you stay in shape you can improve with age. I've dated 8 hot girls in the past 2 years (and only had to pay 2). When you are making $90 an hour running your own business they want to get married even if you are over 30, trust me.

Guess I should have been clearer, those things are important for guys looking for a girlfriend/wife/sex. If a girl is overweight, the guy doesn't like it. If a girl is over 30 looking to get married, the guy doesn't like it and she is almost done. If a girl doesn't look good, the guy doesn't like it. These things are just my experience, could differ with others.

By the way, I'm 34.

 

[Zarky]

OP I feel ya. I date lots of 5-6s but I'm always kind of ashamed to be seen with them.

In fact the other day I was out with one in a beach town near me and we ran into a (male) friend of mine. We all had a drink together and when she went to the bathroom I felt the need to give him a "disclaimer" -- ie., I'm not that into her, the sex was easy, I'm dating other women, etc. He laughed about it.

On the other hand, the few times I've dated an 8+ I went out of my way to show her off to friends and family and post pics of us together on Facebook.

Pretty interesting, though predictable I guess.

To address the points the others made here, I agree that if a woman is average or better looking she will increase your standing with other women. I brought a 5 with me to my grad school once. She was very average and a little overweight but a really funny, fun girl to be around and she was making me laugh the entire time. Other women saw us together and me smiling and they were giving me looks like they wanted to get with me. It was so obvious that I remember it 10 years later.

So part of it is the effect that the woman is having on you. If you're with a woman and you both look very happy, that will attract chicks as well. Even if she's not all that hot. Women might even look at the two of you and think, "He looks really fun, and I'm hotter than the girl he's with, maybe I should try to move in."

However if you bring some hellishly obese fugly along with you, it's only going to raise eyebrows unless you're just as unattractive. Women are extremely superficial when they judge each other. They basically base it 100% on looks initially.

 

[BeDJ]

Zarky,

Stop banging 5's

 

[Zarky]

Why? I like the attention. I can be my narcissistic self with less attractive broads. I think I like the control more than the sex. I can be like a god to 5s and 6s.

7s and 8s are on a more equal footing with me and I have to give more, and 9s and 10s are out of my league. 4s and below I can't get an erection with. 5s and 6s are the sweet-spot for me. A few weeks ago a 5 asked permission to lick my balls. This was on a first date. How fun is that.

I granted her permission, by the way