"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Embarassing evening

Kidd

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Yesterday, my friend was having this thing go down at his place. He invited about 7 people, guys and chicks.

By the time everyone showed up, I was pretty buzzed already and me and my friend had finished our 3rd cigar. Then I smoked some weed when the rest of the people came. I was messed up, but still knew what I was doing.

The girl I wanted to hook up with showed up. We start making out outside while everyone's inside. Later on, I ask her to go to the room with me.

We go to the room, lay down, make out, ect. The there's the problem; I couldnt get it really hard.

This was my 3rd time fvcking a girl and the first time this happened. It was difficult for me to get it hard. I got it hard enough to bone her for about 15 minutes made her come. BUT I COULDNT COME, even when she was blowing me.

I kept trying until i just got too tired and then we got dressed and left. I can tell the girl was upset at me, she was ignoring me for the rest of the evening. Even though it wasn't her fault, she thinks it is. I called her, we talked, but couldnt keep a decent conversation going, it was too awkward. I asked if she'd be interested in hooking up again, she said maybe. We'll see, because words dont mean much.

Then I lost it, and started getting all stupid and asking her how she felt, ect. She told me that she enjoyed it, even though I didnt come.

This is the first time something like this happened to me. I've been occasionally smoking cigarettes for about 3 months now, could that be why? Doubtful. I want this chick again, what actions should I take next?

Thanks for the help.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Smooth Player 056

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Was she really hot? Maybe it was performance anxiety wich definetly can affect your performance.

If you were able to have sex fine before you started getting stupid and smoking cigars and drinking, try not smoking or drinking before you have sex next time and see what happens.

missed the part about him drinking ^^^^^^^
 
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NYC Dude

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Yeah man, seems like it was the alcohol and weed that did it to you. Once you started being stupid with the girl (you should know better than that), you ruined the main chance you had.
 

Kidd

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Hm.

Im pretty sure it was the booze/weed. I also felt pretty sick when I was doing her, and puked about 10 minutes after we finished.

I haven't lost her yet, if I play my cards right. Il know better next time, heh.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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B-Lemond

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It is DEFINATELY the drugs and alcohol that did it. It stops/reduces the amount of blood pumped to your ****.

"Then I lost it, and started getting all stupid and asking her how she felt, ect."
How is that losing it? If anything it's worse if you ask her if she wants to "hook up" than it is to ask her how she feels.
 

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Originally posted by The Master Disaster
I've been high/drunk and still got it up fairly quick
Everyone's different.

It was definitely the alcohol and weed. The cigars won't have any effect at all.
 

dirtyvibe

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weed can make your circulation get a little worse so if you'd just smoked weed thats probably why you couldnt get a boner
 

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Ok, it was settled. I still have the girl.

BEtter learn from my damn mistakes and not repeat em :eek:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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RaWBLooD

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if she got off youll be fine.
just dont drink so much next time, weed actually helps me get boners easier.
 
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