"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lol oh man........*embarassed laugh* hahaha ok i recently posted about what to do about a chick who emailed "uhhhhhhmmmmm hi"...... in my first post (email to chick)....well here's what happened:

i responed with something like:
wow i just got done reading your LONG email (all it said was uhhmm hi) and told her about myself and asked her a few questions....well one of the things that struck me were: she has a two month old baby and also SHE IS ONLY 16......:eek:

now one of the reasons i emailed her was becuase her friendster profile said she was about or above legal age, which i don't remember, and also was becuase i wanted to get over my shyness and thought id start on the friendster personals, i can talk to girls on the streets, but its hard sometimes becaues they always are either in a rush or somthing or other.....

anywho i was gonnna say the above (something like, wow your still a baby! :D) (yes the smile too), and that we could be friends, since she is only 16 and im not about to go to jail over this s*hit.....but on the other hand i was gonna just not respond, im in shock right now......i think she told me about her being 16 to tell me to bugg off, by the way she said it *oh yeah, and im 16*

i know im analyzing too much, but we are talking serious jail time and im not going to jail over some b*itch......what would u do?

be friends?
tell her that i emailed her b/c she her profile caught my eye, and that i im trying to get to know people on the streets and meet on personals to get over my shyness?

or not respond?.....hmmm any thoughts? :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tell her to e-mail you when she is 18! Don't give her another baby!
 
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i answered

well , i have no plans on meeting her, since she IS only 16 and has a kid.......but i did email her, just basically asking questions as a friend, and saying that if she stills wanted to be friends it won't bother me, i left it up to her..

i am well aware that you are not supposed to give women "your power", its just that there is a BIG gap in age difference and also so she can't accuse me of ****.... (lets just say i don't want to be the Latino R. Kelly) paranoid? yes i am..but its for a good reason...anyway i may as well post a field report, its not much, but since there were alot of managers at my work today, i could only say hi to a girl or 2, and meet one at the register....
 

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Apparently age doesn't matter much, if she's 16 and already has a child. I wouldn't worry about anything short of getting her pregnant - obviously she's already demonstrated the fact that she is determined to keep the baby (unless you're ready for fatherhood, wrap it up!)

Other than that, have a blast. (Though if you're over 21, it's just sick. Really.)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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nah its free

nah friendsters free, and its handy to find old friends and make new ones...im practicing my convo skill and greetting skills/ice breakers, that how i met this chick...

ok
well her profile said she was 22, and then her other one on a different website said 18, but she old me about that after she said she was 16...when she told me that she had a kid, i decided to not even try thats why i said that that its up to her if she wants to be friends...besides well one profile says single and the other married, but unless she turns 17 this year, im not gonna say a word about hooking up or meeting

but she said that she shops alot where i work, and im going to respond with: ill tell you if you promise not to be a serial stalker....or something, practicing my c+f skills,and being a smarta*ss........well anyway well see what happens, but i have no intent on hooking up with her lol

but when you said wrap it up [T]he ishop, what did you mean? hmm oh well later yall

lmiam
 

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sounds like a headcase biotch. i'd avoid
 
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