"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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rjames407

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Hey guys,

There was this girl in one of my seminars who I chatted to, and asked out too soon as hadnt build sufficient rapport/attraction. So I noticed that there was a lack of interest and it was a bit awkward when I saw her so I wrote it off and deleted her number.

Anyway, got an email from her (addressed to two other guys) asking for some work - I ignored it. I had another personal email the other day requesting notes and asking how I was, so i gave her the notes and said something like my revision is good, hope yours is too (with no questions). Anyway, get another reply saying thanks for notes, she is sat in library, being annoyed by many people (trying to be jokey/funny) and asked AGAIN, how my work was going. How shall I reply, do you think I should maintain and not ask any questions/just say my work is going well...OR am i overanalysing

Cheers guys
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PlayToWin

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You might be overanalyzing, but in a situation like this its worth it to just ask her out for coffee, or at least pursue a little. I mean I have tried with chicks who have given me a lot less IOIs than this. I mean the fact that she basically knows your intentions and that you are interested in her at least somewhat and the fact that she is contacting you shows that she probably has interest in you, whether it be high or low interest its worth a shot.
 
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