"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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rjames407

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Hey guys,

There was this girl in one of my seminars who I chatted to, and asked out too soon as hadnt build sufficient rapport/attraction. So I noticed that there was a lack of interest and it was a bit awkward when I saw her so I wrote it off and deleted her number.

Anyway, got an email from her (addressed to two other guys) asking for some work - I ignored it. I had another personal email the other day requesting notes and asking how I was, so i gave her the notes and said something like my revision is good, hope yours is too (with no questions). Anyway, get another reply saying thanks for notes, she is sat in library, being annoyed by many people (trying to be jokey/funny) and asked AGAIN, how my work was going. How shall I reply, do you think I should maintain and not ask any questions/just say my work is going well...OR am i overanalysing

Cheers guys
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PlayToWin

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You might be overanalyzing, but in a situation like this its worth it to just ask her out for coffee, or at least pursue a little. I mean I have tried with chicks who have given me a lot less IOIs than this. I mean the fact that she basically knows your intentions and that you are interested in her at least somewhat and the fact that she is contacting you shows that she probably has interest in you, whether it be high or low interest its worth a shot.
 
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