"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What are your thoughts? I'm sure this has been covered somewhere but I couldn't seem to find the threads. Basically there's a girl I see in class that I've been trying to ask out for a few days but she pretty much runs to her next class which starts as soon as our one ends. I have her email - would it be acceptable to ask her out this way or would I come off as too much of a ***** if I did that? Thanks guys...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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be a man, ask her out in person. especially if you see her all the time in class.
 
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I wouldn't ask her out via email.

In fact, personally, if I was in your boat, would never "ask her out."

You only ask people out if it is the only way you can gain access to them to seduce them.

You have access. Use it.

I seriously doubt you don't have any other opportunity to talk to her. You are just not being creative enough.

Every second in class you can seduce her. Whatever it was that you planning on doing on this date to make her wanna **** you you can do it in class.

Personally I would wear cool clothes, have a nice smell, flirt with the other girls, be loud and crazy with guys, skip class every now and then, be the class clown, make sure I have great body language and voice tone, bust on her or ignore her most of the time but occasionally give her some serious EC...

If you generate attration in her she will put herself in a position where you can approach.

As for the email, I'd only use lighthearted topics to keep her thinking about you and ONLY after I have began to generate attraction in person.

save the DJ stuff for face to face.
 
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