"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What are your thoughts? I'm sure this has been covered somewhere but I couldn't seem to find the threads. Basically there's a girl I see in class that I've been trying to ask out for a few days but she pretty much runs to her next class which starts as soon as our one ends. I have her email - would it be acceptable to ask her out this way or would I come off as too much of a ***** if I did that? Thanks guys...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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be a man, ask her out in person. especially if you see her all the time in class.
 
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I wouldn't ask her out via email.

In fact, personally, if I was in your boat, would never "ask her out."

You only ask people out if it is the only way you can gain access to them to seduce them.

You have access. Use it.

I seriously doubt you don't have any other opportunity to talk to her. You are just not being creative enough.

Every second in class you can seduce her. Whatever it was that you planning on doing on this date to make her wanna **** you you can do it in class.

Personally I would wear cool clothes, have a nice smell, flirt with the other girls, be loud and crazy with guys, skip class every now and then, be the class clown, make sure I have great body language and voice tone, bust on her or ignore her most of the time but occasionally give her some serious EC...

If you generate attration in her she will put herself in a position where you can approach.

As for the email, I'd only use lighthearted topics to keep her thinking about you and ONLY after I have began to generate attraction in person.

save the DJ stuff for face to face.
 
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