"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Elevators Girls

Von

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The girls in my elevator (building elevators) says Hi! to me when I come in.... Note: I don't look at them when I come in. They usually alone.

I guess its a sign of good frame.

Now how to escalate to number close in 1min?

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PS: It happend around 7 times in the past month, I got their name....with expection of closing new time... but when is next time ? You never know. I live in that building (usually see the same people)

How would you number close someone in the elevator, she made the first move.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"whats your number"

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Say you're doing a party (don't invite her, look for her reaction) and then ask for a number.
 

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"We got to stop meeting this way... ha, ha".... "My name Von by the way.... How about a cup of coffee ?"
 
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"We got to stop meeting this way... ha, ha".... "My name Von by the way.... How about a cup of coffee ?"
Crazy how I never thought about that before. I was getting home from a party, it was 1am, this korean girl (she confirmed that) enters and ask me: ''Do you live by yourself or with roomates''..... I was like WTF you didn't even say Hi....

I used your line, number closed her, asked her out for a bar in the 15min ''What you doing in 15 min etc....'' she responded but flaked. (it was late on same night but contact made)

So I got 1 number from that, i'll ask her out monday and see where it goes. Maybe i'll have another plate in my building
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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