Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Elevators Girls

Von

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The girls in my elevator (building elevators) says Hi! to me when I come in.... Note: I don't look at them when I come in. They usually alone.

I guess its a sign of good frame.

Now how to escalate to number close in 1min?

Advice

PS: It happend around 7 times in the past month, I got their name....with expection of closing new time... but when is next time ? You never know. I live in that building (usually see the same people)

How would you number close someone in the elevator, she made the first move.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"whats your number"

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Say you're doing a party (don't invite her, look for her reaction) and then ask for a number.
 

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"We got to stop meeting this way... ha, ha".... "My name Von by the way.... How about a cup of coffee ?"
 
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"We got to stop meeting this way... ha, ha".... "My name Von by the way.... How about a cup of coffee ?"
Crazy how I never thought about that before. I was getting home from a party, it was 1am, this korean girl (she confirmed that) enters and ask me: ''Do you live by yourself or with roomates''..... I was like WTF you didn't even say Hi....

I used your line, number closed her, asked her out for a bar in the 15min ''What you doing in 15 min etc....'' she responded but flaked. (it was late on same night but contact made)

So I got 1 number from that, i'll ask her out monday and see where it goes. Maybe i'll have another plate in my building
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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