"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ejactulating too quickly during sex

lordson

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Well the title says it all. I'm young, so that doesn't help, in the past when we were having sex 3-4 times a week it would happen only about 20% of the time. the otherr 80% I could go for about 20 minutes, but nowadays when we're having sex once a week, i can only maintain myself for 1-2 minutes.

i thought it'll go away, but it hasn't really, and is now officially a problem

she's not going to leave me over it, but might be reluctant in the future to even start having sex if i dont solve my problm soon, because its not worht the effort

anybody have any solutions to my problem?

cheers fellas
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pingpongz

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Are you wearing condoms? If not.. try them.. they personally make me last indefinitly. If you are using them and still having a problem you can get ones with a numbing gel in the bottom of them...

Lots of masturbation before sex also helps.
 

FairShake

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Practice, practice, practice.

I had this problem for YEARS. Yes years. I eventually developed a technique where I would "half ***" and still maintain erections while I pumped away. Didn't do much for me, but helped out my gfs at the time.

But **** that. What you need to do is find a understanding woman and practice lasting longer as often as you can. And if you can't be with her more than once or twice a week, do it by yourself. Get yourself up to the brink of finish and stop. Do this 5 times or so per session. Eventually you'll be lasting as long as you want. Or at least as long as SHE wants. :up:
 

02hero

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If you feel like your gonna blow your beans, change position. While you are flipping her over, kiss her, tease or talk dirty to her or something...... once the feeling passes, stick it back in and carry on.....
 
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