Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ejactulating too quickly during sex

lordson

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Well the title says it all. I'm young, so that doesn't help, in the past when we were having sex 3-4 times a week it would happen only about 20% of the time. the otherr 80% I could go for about 20 minutes, but nowadays when we're having sex once a week, i can only maintain myself for 1-2 minutes.

i thought it'll go away, but it hasn't really, and is now officially a problem

she's not going to leave me over it, but might be reluctant in the future to even start having sex if i dont solve my problm soon, because its not worht the effort

anybody have any solutions to my problem?

cheers fellas
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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pingpongz

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Are you wearing condoms? If not.. try them.. they personally make me last indefinitly. If you are using them and still having a problem you can get ones with a numbing gel in the bottom of them...

Lots of masturbation before sex also helps.
 

FairShake

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Practice, practice, practice.

I had this problem for YEARS. Yes years. I eventually developed a technique where I would "half ***" and still maintain erections while I pumped away. Didn't do much for me, but helped out my gfs at the time.

But **** that. What you need to do is find a understanding woman and practice lasting longer as often as you can. And if you can't be with her more than once or twice a week, do it by yourself. Get yourself up to the brink of finish and stop. Do this 5 times or so per session. Eventually you'll be lasting as long as you want. Or at least as long as SHE wants. :up:
 

02hero

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If you feel like your gonna blow your beans, change position. While you are flipping her over, kiss her, tease or talk dirty to her or something...... once the feeling passes, stick it back in and carry on.....
 
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