Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I never said girls were good thoughKontrollerX said:The "people are good" crowd need to watch this video.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Two words.. Instant draft. (into the military)KarmaSutra said:These b!tches live 15 minutes from me. This is the talk of the town.
This podunk hick town is chock full of fvcking numbnuts. No different than any other dumbass town here in the States though.
The biggest problem is that there isn't any real discipline for these kids to rethink bullsh!t like this.
MacAvoy said:Those girls are hot. (or at least the girl punching is)
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Which one?... the one being punched or the one in the white shirt..mpimpin said:I thought so too till I looked at her myspace. And no I'm not a stalker just saw the link in a Youtube comment.
grr was gonna post it but can't find it now. Trust me that girl is trash at its finest
Due to the amount of press it's recieved Sheriff Judd has these cvnts being held as adults and they will be tried as such too. The Attorney General of Florida is making this a political crusade for Governor Crist.EricInTheHouse said:Two words.. Instant draft. (into the military)
That would be a great law.. Three strikes and you're instantly a member of the armed forces when you graduate.
Yes these girls need to be punished not just get they're hands slapped. I hope they get a strict judge.
The one doing most of the punching. Mercades I think is her name. I'm sure the others have myspaces too, but I don't have the time to look that all up. Interestingly enough nothing about the attacks on her myspace. No recent comments either though. Prob haven't accepted them or deleted themEricInTheHouse said:Which one?... the one being punched or the one in the white shirt..
I bet those myspace accounts won't be up soon, lol
They might joke in jail. But if they are tried as adults...they might end up in PRISON. Not a joking matter there.KarmaSutra said:Due to the amount of press it's recieved Sheriff Judd has these cvnts being held as adults and they will be tried as such too. The Attorney General of Florida is making this a political crusade for Governor Crist.
They've been in jail, no bond, for 4 days already. . .
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.