Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I never said girls were good thoughKontrollerX said:The "people are good" crowd need to watch this video.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Two words.. Instant draft. (into the military)KarmaSutra said:These b!tches live 15 minutes from me. This is the talk of the town.
This podunk hick town is chock full of fvcking numbnuts. No different than any other dumbass town here in the States though.
The biggest problem is that there isn't any real discipline for these kids to rethink bullsh!t like this.
MacAvoy said:Those girls are hot. (or at least the girl punching is)
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Which one?... the one being punched or the one in the white shirt..mpimpin said:I thought so too till I looked at her myspace. And no I'm not a stalker just saw the link in a Youtube comment.
grr was gonna post it but can't find it now. Trust me that girl is trash at its finest
Due to the amount of press it's recieved Sheriff Judd has these cvnts being held as adults and they will be tried as such too. The Attorney General of Florida is making this a political crusade for Governor Crist.EricInTheHouse said:Two words.. Instant draft. (into the military)
That would be a great law.. Three strikes and you're instantly a member of the armed forces when you graduate.
Yes these girls need to be punished not just get they're hands slapped. I hope they get a strict judge.
The one doing most of the punching. Mercades I think is her name. I'm sure the others have myspaces too, but I don't have the time to look that all up. Interestingly enough nothing about the attacks on her myspace. No recent comments either though. Prob haven't accepted them or deleted themEricInTheHouse said:Which one?... the one being punched or the one in the white shirt..
I bet those myspace accounts won't be up soon, lol
They might joke in jail. But if they are tried as adults...they might end up in PRISON. Not a joking matter there.KarmaSutra said:Due to the amount of press it's recieved Sheriff Judd has these cvnts being held as adults and they will be tried as such too. The Attorney General of Florida is making this a political crusade for Governor Crist.
They've been in jail, no bond, for 4 days already. . .
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.