ehhh to call or not to call...that is the question!

[pvf94]

I recieved a phone call from a girl about an hour and a half ago and its a girl that has been sorta distant with me lately..

I answered "Hello" She said "heyyyy what are you doin"

I responded "Im on a bike trip" (I probably sounded a tad outta breath)

She asked if she should call back later and I said " No, what did ya need?"

She replied " Ill just call back later " I replied with a bit of a laugh "alright" and she hungup.


Im assuming I came off as an *******....should I wait for her to call back or just call her back in a bit and apologize for sounding like. an ass....in my experience girls never call back unless they are in a relationship with you.

 

[Answers]

Don't appologise just be polite and don't give her the power by being too nice.

 

[pvf94]

Don't appologise just be polite and don't give her the power by being too nice.

Should I call her ? Or wait for a phone call that most likely isnt going to come to me....even though she said "Ill call you later"

 

[Answers]

Should I call her ? Or wait for a phone call that most likely isnt going to come to me....even though she said "Ill call you later"

You could call her and use the excuse that you'll be busy later. Thats if you think she isn't going to call you back.

 

[pvf94]

Anybody else got a take on this?

 

[Rex Man]

Well to start, you fukked up the initial call.

When she said, "I just call back later", you should have said sterner, "What did you want? (Like you were getting annoyed)


I say that because it's obvious you want to talk this girl and you ruined your opportunity to capitalize when you had the upper hand.

Anywho, don't call. Especially if she has a habit of not picking up. If you MUST contact her, do so with a text. If she doesn't respond, you have your answer.

 

[pvf94]

The whole thing is I truly came off as a ****, and I didn't mean to I was just in a weird mood. And my choice of wording showed that.

 

[amoka]

You did absolutely NOTHING wrong that you should apologize for. You were on a bike ride and she said she will call you back and if she does not call, don't sweet it. In situations as such, instead of allowing her to make decisions whether to contact you back or not, you should have been making the decision. Simply put, you should have told her. "I'm on a bike ride. Let me call you back when I get home." In this case, you can call her whenever you want. Remember, it is harder for ladies to pick the phone and just talk to someone they are "unsure" off. Just wait for her to call, and apologize for ANYTHING. Tell her how much she missed the bike ride... that is all.

-Best of lucks

 

[pvf94]

You did absolutely NOTHING wrong that you should apologize for. You were on a bike ride and she said she will call you back and if she does not call, don't sweet it. In situations as such, instead of allowing her to make decisions whether to contact you back or not, you should have been making the decision. Simply put, you should have told her. "I'm on a bike ride. Let me call you back when I get home." In this case, you can call her whenever you want. Remember, it is harder for ladies to pick the phone and just talk to someone they are "unsure" off. Just wait for her to call, and apologize for ANYTHING. Tell her how much she missed the bike ride... that is all.

-Best of lucks

What is the purpose of not apologizing for being an a jerk? I see it as me being an a jerk for no reason...she just got caught me at a bad time....oh and by the way the reason she called me was because she had 2 tickets to a concert and wanted to invite me....said I was the first person she called. I DID apologize for throwing out a bad vibe...and all I got out of it was a free concert and a night with her.

She thanked me for calling and said everything is ok and that she looks forward to seeing me on Friday night.

I dunno couldn't of been that bad...I just went with my gut feeling...I was an honest d1ck and she only wanted to do something nice for me so it could not of been that bad.