"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ehh, kinda weird situation

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There's this girl now one year junior to me (I passed from O to A levels she's gonna complete it next year). She used to be in my last school and now I see her ocasionally. I'd call her an 8 (everone else says 6.5~7). Very friendly outgoing kinda girl (thats actually why I'm posting).

The plan is a plain, talk to her, get number, wait a few days, ask out, blah blah blah. Just one problem, she recognised me the first day at the new school and is so far the only one to not bring up the story of me geting expeled from the last school. I dont know what the **** her name is or anything else about her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you do get to know her and are successful early on...you might want to try to casually clarify that you were expelled...you're saying she doesn't know? If you don't tell her, she sees that as lying; decietful. Good luck...
 
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LOL i got the record for suspensions satuday dententions and normal dententions in my middle school

i was almost expelled twice now everyone brings up the comment i yelled at a teacher "UR BLOWING THIS OUT OF PROPORTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" almost smacked her but got held back by the three biggest guys in the class


well long story short i had to get a psych exam and 6 months worth of consoling (for the 1st 2 months i had this one guy that let me play darts so it wasnt to bad till months 3+)
 

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This is more of field report I supose. I'm prety sure she knows I was expelled but being the sunshine girl she is didnt bring it up (it's my second expelation BTW, that she dont know). Was hoping for idea's on the fact that I dont know her name. Sample convo (yeah I'm desperate):

"Ey listen ,this is kinda embarasing but, what's your name again?" Crap bout why she left the old school. Split, get number see what hapens next week or so. I'm allways a little of-balance with the sunshine types but WTF see what hapens right.

There's another girl in the coaching I go to as well. ~6 bit of a nerd . That's for tomorow and I'll post up what hapens.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Field REPORT & UPDATE

Allright I was ~40 minutes late to class but there she was with some random ho near the entrance. She asks if some dude showed up yesterday I answer that, used the "fergot your name bit" and for the first time I saw her pissed of (somewhat).

Don't know if she was playing, goes "I dont have a name" and looks the other way. The gaurds being an amazingly nice guy so holds me back and we check the register (we got to sign in before coming in). I cant really make it out since her handwriting is worse than mine. So I'm making fun of her handwriting ask her why she left the last school. Just says "well the teachers werent that good". She's usually talktaive so I guess I pissed her off. I'm allready late for class so I leave.

20 minutes later I'm chiling with a bud waiting for the next class, when she passes by, I ask if she's upset or crap and no response (my bud says I got an "evil look" on her way out). OTOH a guy in my class was talking to her and random girl when I asked her again if she was offended and she just "Nah man I dont mind", sounded a bit upset but coulda been something else.
It's been a while since I mad a field report and I have a comments:

Should have just taken the number saying I got to get to class. Should have worked nicely last time. I'm not asking her out on the spot so need to wait for the last 10%.

I got to work on my comunication skills. I had no damn clue what to say (other than making fun of her handwriting)

NUMERO UNO thing I learned is this PRACTISE MAKES PERFECT. This is probably my 3/4th aproach in my whole lifetime but you now what? It's the VTEC point for me. Last time (arguably ages ago) I was pissing myself, hear beating strong enough to break my ribs. This time, no sweat.

All in all, it could have been better but I think its great practise if nothing else (I'll get her number day after and another girl tomorow).
 

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You dont wna ask too many gurls out man, you gta practise bein wit a gurl aswell, an they aint gna wna be with you if your askin loadsa honeys out!
Space it out, like if your doin okay with a gurl an workin on it, then just dont ask any other gurls, unless they show intrest, just stick to a gurl you like for atleast a week, an try an get somewhere!
 

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Thanks man

Didn't see sunshine yesterday but later on I got class with the other honey. I dont know **** all bout her. Need some advice.

There's about 30 people in the class and we been siting together for the last couple of days (came in late and it's front bench). I'm thinking I just ask if she wrote anything last class (I did my 'artwork' then) and see if I can hold a convo (which I suck at). Leave with the crew and ask for the #.

I got 3 peeps who'd prolly help me out somewhat, any advice apreciated.
 
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