"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eharmony.com kind of a Review

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Well, I was over at thundercat's new website (again) and he had a new post up about Eharmony. Now I have tried Eharmony,after seeing those corny commercials. I have to say it sucks. First I had to do all these damn preselected questions. The worst thing is that the test said I was incompatable with anybod:mad:. Needless to say I was pissed, I spent all this time putting up my profile and you betray me like this:box:. I told this to my mom and she laughed. I knew I was fvcked up but not that bad. Anyways ignore those damn commercials. People are to complex to be summed up by stupid questions.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I knew this dude that found his "love of his life" on eharmony. He would drive 500 miles every weekend to see her. I imagined she was pretty hot.

Until I saw her picture. She was so fat her last name was Dunlap.

Her stomach dun lapped over her belt!
 
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yeah there are better websites ones that actually let you see the chick before you get with her. I'm not too superficial despite being a guy but, damn. I'm still a guy
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I actually talk to decent girls on eharmony.... I just don't think anything will become of it, your average decent girl doesn't need the internet. It's expensive too,.
 
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Chosen1 said:
Well, I was over at thundercat's new website (again) and he had a new post up about Eharmony. Now I have tried Eharmony,after seeing those corny commercials. I have to say it sucks. First I had to do all these damn preselected questions. The worst thing is that the test said I was incompatable with anybod:mad:. Needless to say I was pissed, I spent all this time putting up my profile and you betray me like this:box:. I told this to my mom and she laughed. I knew I was fvcked up but not that bad. Anyways ignore those damn commercials. People are to complex to be summed up by stupid questions.
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Dude, eHarmony (and any other dating site) is nothing different than dating offline, you aren't always going to be able to immediately find someone whose compatible with you. And as for those questions, it's just qualifying. This is where a lot of guys keep having the problem with hooking up with b1tches, they are too enamored with her looks that they neglect learning anything about her.
 
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yea bro, sometimes online dating sucks man
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Dude, eHarmony (and any other dating site) is nothing different than dating offline, you aren't always going to be able to immediately find someone whose compatible with you. And as for those questions, it's just qualifying. This is where a lot of guys keep having the problem with hooking up with b1tches, they are too enamored with her looks that they neglect learning anything about her.
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I'm not mad about the questions I'm mad it said I wasn't compatible with any body I was like whaaaaaaa. I know better then to hook up with a b!tch. Learning about your as I call them buddy is important because it'll like being friends with a stranger.
 
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Chosen1 said:
Well, I was over at thundercat's new website (again) and he had a new post up about Eharmony. Now I have tried Eharmony,after seeing those corny commercials. I have to say it sucks. First I had to do all these damn preselected questions. The worst thing is that the test said I was incompatable with anybod:mad:. Needless to say I was pissed, I spent all this time putting up my profile and you betray me like this:box:. I told this to my mom and she laughed. I knew I was fvcked up but not that bad. Anyways ignore those damn commercials. People are to complex to be summed up by stupid questions.
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Dude, that is SOOoooo funny!

Eharmony sounds more for chumps, then like other websites like myspace...

I agree
Screw those questions man!

The internet dating fad is so huge that you can buy web site templates that are FOR DATING. Like it does EVERYTHING for you. You just have do like 15 minutes of tweaking and advertise!
Example.
http://www.webdevelopersnotes.com/templates/dating_templates.php3
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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