"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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eh i just want to be more open with the ladies

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so there i am swimming in the pool, joined by a fair latina in black speedo with expert form no swimcap. my heart fluttered as our eyes met, it messed me up a little. about 2 minutes of her swimming (i had been for awhile) she left the pool and got in the jacuzzi, she spent about 10 minutes there and came back out to swim. before going in she seemed interested locking eyes several times not after coming back though. should i have followed to the jacuzzi even though i was there to swim?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Then please allow me to kindly simplify it further. YOU CAN SWIM ANY ****ING TIME YOU WANT.

That girl is gone forever. And all possibilities with her, now gone. Don't ever give up the chance. If she was looking at you, she was digging you. Go for it.

Start the bootcamp bro, look at the stickied thread.



(Also, a pool won't suck your ****.)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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