so there i am swimming in the pool, joined by a fair latina in black speedo with expert form no swimcap. my heart fluttered as our eyes met, it messed me up a little. about 2 minutes of her swimming (i had been for awhile) she left the pool and got in the jacuzzi, she spent about 10 minutes there and came back out to swim. before going in she seemed interested locking eyes several times not after coming back though. should i have followed to the jacuzzi even though i was there to swim?
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are you more interested in her or your swimming? That's your answer.
Then please allow me to kindly simplify it further. YOU CAN SWIM ANY ****ING TIME YOU WANT.
That girl is gone forever. And all possibilities with her, now gone. Don't ever give up the chance. If she was looking at you, she was digging you. Go for it.
Start the bootcamp bro, look at the stickied thread.
(Also, a pool won't suck your ****.)
That girl is gone forever. And all possibilities with her, now gone. Don't ever give up the chance. If she was looking at you, she was digging you. Go for it.
Start the bootcamp bro, look at the stickied thread.
(Also, a pool won't suck your ****.)
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Lol custom jacuzzi, reverse water jets.ryanjevo said:
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.