jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
Can someone define the word ego and how you think its different from ****iness and confidence.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ego
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
no i mean the way we see ourselves not how other people see us. Like waht do you think and egotistic person would think off himself compared to a ****y person or a confident person ?
people look at us the way we look at ourselves. its all sub-conscious communication. we all have a means to subconsciously detect how a person feels about himself and we adopt it. So if you wanna know how people feel about you, look how you feel about yourself. if you wanna know how any other person feels about himself, look how you feel about him.
