jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
Can someone define the word ego and how you think its different from ****iness and confidence.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ego
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
no i mean the way we see ourselves not how other people see us. Like waht do you think and egotistic person would think off himself compared to a ****y person or a confident person ?
people look at us the way we look at ourselves. its all sub-conscious communication. we all have a means to subconsciously detect how a person feels about himself and we adopt it. So if you wanna know how people feel about you, look how you feel about yourself. if you wanna know how any other person feels about himself, look how you feel about him.
