Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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EFT (emotional freedom therapy) or TFT

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Has this been discussed on this site much? i've tried doing a search but don't seem to find anything.
Its basicly tapping on the bodies acupressure points to release negative emotions. Its a pretty usefull tool. What are peoples views on this technique?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I stumbled across a few sites today searching for emotions. Emotions were consideered by the psychology community as a suicidal career choice until the early 80's when a group of scientists proved that emotions are the driving force for motivation. Desire and interest stem directly from emotions, and folow logic patterns...

The two primary emotions felt by humans(fear and joy) are apparent in most every discussion that people have...

Here's an excerpt from "the bristol lair"

How to cure yourself completely.


For full information on EFT, visit emofree.com. Read the testimonials and success stories. Sign up for the newsletter and download the free PDF. It may seem gay and New Age, but this **** really works.

In the Bristol Lair we've found EFT very successful in removing minor emotional blocks on approaching and other aspects of relating to women. This is mostly thanks to the work of Trancer, who works as a hypnotherapist.

The idea is that over the years we have developed various negative beliefs. Maybe these were installed after one interaction with a socially inept female, or maybe they were drilled into us by our parents or schoolfriends. Wherever they came from, they can usually be removed in just a few minutes with EFT.

Here are some example beliefs that can cause anxiety, you may have a few of your own:

She won't fancy me
She's with her friends
She has a boyfriend
The bouncers will throw me out
I'll look like a fool
I can't handle rejection
I'll get very nervous
I might succeed and have to deal with sex
From reading mASF you should know that these are demonstrably untrue or irrelevant. But even if you know that on a conscious level, they still may cause anxiety or nervousness. This is where EFT comes in.

You should become aware of what your particular sticking points are. In general they can be removed with a couple of EFT sessions, but you may find they return after a few weeks or months. That means there is another belief that is causing them to return, so work out what that is and use EFT on that as well. They will also return if you don't conquer the beliefs in the field as well, and provide yourself with experience that they are false.

Practice EFT on your own or with your wings before you go out. Even better, do some approaches, and then do some EFT in a quiet area of a bar and go right back out into the field to see if it has helped.

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I still think acupuncture is complete bullshism though
 

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Thats where i stumbled across it flippinfreak, they give you a link to the site where theres the ebook to read, its a bit long and really doesn't need to be, i read it all though. The thought field therapy is pretty similar, and easier to do, and it does work, but you've really got focus and feel the emotion before "tapping" it away on the points. The book "tapping the healer" within, is ment to be the first book on the subject, i've not read it, but its is used allot by Paul Mckenna in his self help shows. Suprised that this has never been brought up on this site before.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Who's Paul Mckenna?

Is he related to Morag?
 

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He's a British NLP'er/Hypnotist. And as far as I know... No, he's not related to Terrance.
 

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He's a british hypnotist, very closley related richard brandler (the inventor of NLP) which he has worked with often.
 

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